SARGING EVRYDAY IS A TIRING PROCESS HENCE THE INTERST OF HAVING THE SAME ROUTINE YOU USE ALL THE TIME MAYBE TWO ROUTINES

WANT TO KNOW< WHICH ONES ? I THOGHT YOU MIGHT ASK



rapport is the key
how do you establish rapport ?

FIRST ASK WHERE SUCH A RESTAURANT IS

THEN POINT OUT TWO UNKNWN DISHES YOUR FRIEND HAS WRITTEN ON A PIECE OF PAPER

THE SECRET IS BEFORE SHE S DONE ASWERING THE FIRST Q ( direction) you push the paper in frront of her eyes YOU PUSH THE CONVO ( can be interepreted as rude but it works YOU FORCE THE CONVO )

then you point to two other unkown words on the same paper


writing is better than talking it gives you more confidence

Where is such a restaurant that serves Kentucky fried Korean barbeque?

(Big rapport boost, Kentucky + Korean = A man of the world)

So before the date I ask my friend to write down two random things that you eat on a piece of paper.

I shove the paper in front of her face, which has written upon it 'chicken' or 'beef'.

She points to beef.

+7 confidence points for 'beef'. b=2, e=1, f=3