I dont get it...

I was making out with this girl this past friday and i ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend.

her response:

"I dont know"

Me: Why?

Her: It would be weird because I'm in 11th grade and your only a freshmen

Me: It doesnt matter.

Her: Lets just have like a fling

Me: I dont like being used, I'd rather have a girlfriend.

Her: Why?

Me: Because its just me

Her: "Ill think about it, and let you know when you get back from christmas."

I was like whatever. Then our friends come in and we start talking to them about random **** and then we go to her room for another makeout session.

So I'm like totally confused and ****. She's told me before that thinking going out with someone younger than her would be wierd, but I look like I could be a junior myself.

Then right before I left she called me up on her friends cell, in like one of those shy voices ( I dont know if you know what I am talking about). So I took that as a good sign.

Im gonna call her up on christmas day, and say merry christmas and ****. But when or what should I do? Should I wait? I mean coming back to my old town I could have a lot of fun here, I could've made out with this one girl tonight. But I told myself to wait.

So thanks!


P.s. thank you to everyones bible posts and other great posts! I remember that I used to get sweaty palms just last year during spring break whenever a girl sat near me. WHAT A FU*KING CHANGE! Thank you!

You should never ask a girl to go exclusive with you. It's THEIR job to get all insecure and freaky about the relationship, not yours. It kills the challenge.

Anyway, why do you want her as your "girlfriend"? Looks like things are going well as it is. Keep making out with her and keep the mushiness level down. Have fun.

Agreed. Girlfriends cost money. Sex slaves are free.

She told you she just wanted to have a fling. Unless a relationship is what you really want with her, you should be dancing in the streets. Not only would you have a free f*ck buddy, but you're not limited just to her either.

However, if you really do want the relationship with her, there may just be a way. Next time you're making out with her, just tell her that she's right and a relationship isn't a good idea, and you don't know what you were thinking. This should really get her thinking herself about why a freshman wouldn't want to be with her, and she'll probably change her mind, and want to be your girlfriend.

Personally bro, I think you've got it made in your present situation.

Agreed, you have a free buddy. Keep it that way is my advice. The reason why she doesn't wanna go out with you is because in high school it's odd to have a younger guy and an older girl. Image is involved. I know, it sucks.

Dude!
She wants you to be a friend with benefits!

Your choices are:
a) Hell yes
b) **** yes
c) Let me think...YES!

A girl wants to be **** buddies with you. Think about it. If the choice is that hard, you don't belong here

I forgot to mention, there's no gay forum here...

f*ck her brains out!

sounds to me like she's embarrassed to be going out w/ a freshman which is why she doesn't want to go out w/ u, just fvck around w/ u.

Now after saying that, HELL YES! you better keep it the way it is, there's too much drama in a relationship, just keep messin around w/ her and keep it fun. Unless you want a relationship, which is perfectly fine.

Why are u mad? She is giving you the oppurunity to bang her without restrictions. You must really be young or an AFC if you have a problem with that...