Often theres alot of talk about getting the ladies and what not. I love women probably more than most of this board and after hearing the neighbors fight for a couple nights I got an inspiration for this thread. No matter who you are or where you are it all comes down to this:

"MAINTAIN YOUR PEACE OF MIND". It took awhile but I think I'm finally getting this. Isn't it funny how the little things in life seem to nag at us until its a bunch of little things that make a BIG problem? Thinking about my experiences I can say that alot of the negativity could have been avoided had I'd been at peace with myself. Just think there's someone out there doing LIFE behind bars just because they let someone or something get at them. As a Don Juan I think its important to know that no matter how dark it may seem around us it always will get better. We should be able to ''maintain the frame'' so that no outside source can affect us within. So the next time sh!t happens keep your cool

Great post. Though it is often hard to maintain your poise when you encounter difficult situations, if you ARE able to...the outcome is nearly ALWAYS better than the alternative.