The older I get the more I firmly believe that, Game isn't needed once you got your shyt together, or that you are dealing with the issues a lot of guys deal with. Once you become at a level were your so confident in yourself that no one can fucc with your reality, that's when you reach a level were you don't have to play by the rules. I Know some of you hate "he who must not be named" but their is a reason why he is so worshiped on the forum, he understood this while most guys in the community were still "testing" out the latest method. This is all basic stuff so this thread isn't brand new, or breaking new ground here. But I really believe that, tactics and tricks are useless if your not a man who is confident in himself, passionate about his believes and ambitious about his life. Now get this when you are the man (or alpha as most of you like to say) then tricks and tactics are useless because you know you don't need them, cause everything you do comes from a place of self,confidence, sincerity and instinct

The guy's who I know who have this shyt figured out without this site, who never needed to read a e-book on how to pick up women. Have their priority's together, to them women aren't even in their top 5, (well maybe number 5 for some or 4 lol) these guys are out getting their education, making money, getting in shape, traveling the world. They have no problem keeping women at all, matter fact they sometimes have to turn them down!

Not having had a job for 6 months I can see the huge difference between my "success" with women now and when I first joint this site, it's like night and day. I lost motivation got lazy, got fat. Nothing worst then a beer belly gents lol

I know I'm not saying anything new here, but I really believe that self-improvement is the ultimate way to become more naturally alpha. It's not reading the latest article by your favorite blogger on how to pass a shyt test, or buying the latest e-book. But becoming a man who follows his dreams and ambitions. Their some guys on here who have been here for years and probably know the theory better then I do, but they never applied it or tested it out to see if it really works or not

Quick story

I use to go out with a guy who I met on here. The guy knew all the theory and studied most of the best guys in the "game" but the guy dressed like a sloth, was skinny and afraid to approach women. When I met him he was already part of the community for 4 years and at that time never had a girlfirend. Fast Forward two years later. The guy is now ripped with a six pack, dresses like a cool guy, and last i heard had a girlfriend or a fcuk buddy . The guy isn't focus on going out and gaming, matter fact when I call him, he is either at the gym, studying for grad school or doing rock climbing. Women don't matter to him, he now could give a fuccless Knowing the theory and stuff is great but nothing beats improving yourself.

With that said I'm gonna make a list of my priorities and see how I can become a better man