usually i would tell a girl something like:

i'm going to grab some dinner tomorrow night at ___ at 8pm, you should join me." this works pretty well most of the time.


however, with this chick i dont want to word it like i usually do. She is very busy. i swear she works everyday until late then has night class etc. i dont want to throw out that statement and then get rejected by her saying shes working or in class or watever. i need a better way to approach this without being like "lets go out, since your busier than me why dont u pick the day/time"...dont wanna go down that path for obvious reasons.

any advice would be appreciated :rockon:

just ask her when she's free. say hey i know this great so and so restaurant, i think you would love the fish there, when are you free?