I've already had sex with her before a few times and it obviously seems like she she likes some aspect of my personality, which I guess is a start. She claims she's never been in a real relationship at 21. She also claims to have never had emotional sex before (she's had enough partners by 21 to have the arise). Basically, what she's saying is she's never been seduced. Maybe she felt sexual attraction to someone and acted on it, but she's never been truly seduced in a way that affects her emotions and cognition creating something that is the actual sickness of love.

I'm basically asking: how do I mentally seduce her?

Personally, I don't see any long term prospects in this girl beyond a few months, but c'mon, she's a college student; nothing in college is serious.

Hot and cold. Be nice one minute, and a total prick the next. Haven't you learned anything here yet?

horaholic said:

Hot and cold. Be nice one minute, and a total prick the next. Haven't you learned anything here yet?

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this!

more: build her up and then pull the rug from under her


works like a charm, however how long a woman will tolerate this varies

Spontaneity helps. Literally taking her off of her feet and 'having your way with her' i.e. not asking her permission before having sex can be a huge turn on. Just make sure that she's clearly enjoying it, otherwise you'll catch a rape case. It should be pretty damn obvious though.