I will even go one step futher. I have never ever in my life smoked a cig. Ever. EVER. I never have saw the point.
T?here was this waitress at this sports bar I visitied often who I knew like dme. I caught her outside smoking one day and I said babe youw ould have to keep some listerine or some **** around me or something if you want to kiss me, I don't do cig smoke. I was ****ing iwth her at that point in a half serious manner, she was married.
We ended up ****ing like a week later. we ****ed for about 2 months, and in that 2 months, i never saw her light up a cig once, and when she did at my house she would go outside to do so. I have to smoke to get laid my ass ***** this is my house. IF youw ant this **** you are going to do what the **** I say and that's that.
but I can't do it 2 days a week from 9pm-3am.
Show me a guy that stays out to 3am 2 nights a week and I will show you a guy who is broke and has no future.
Early to bed early to raise, makes a man healthy, welahty and wise my friend. Something I realized quite early, earlier than most people my age I think is that, when I stay out to 3-4am.. in reality what i have done, is I have lost 2 days. worth of productivity. I have lost that day and I have lost the next day. lol, truth be told, that's the thought that really helped me get over the hump in my drug addiction, becuase when i would come down, i was usless the next day. So a 7 day week gets cut down to 5 days and if you are like me and you went out on a wednesday night, and didn't get to bed utnil 5am, you really have ****ed the rest of the week.
Again, this is just me. Maybe if you were 6'3" with a chiseled face and had babes crawling all over you (yes, this happens when you hit a critical mass of looks) in the right parties or content with pulling <7's (10's being models), then it might be fun w/o d&a. Otherwise, there is no point.
I would rate myself a solid 7.5, maybe on a really good day 8 out of 10. I work out daily, I have a nice body but i'm not a pro bodybuilder or anything, but I stand out. See, the club industry is a funny industry as it has sold people, (i.e guys) on this idea that this is the place where you want to be, this is the place where you can get the female attention the place where you can meet ladies, the p,lace where they will respond to your advices.. with just a few helpings of mr. liquor I will "be banging fat *****es in no time lol"
What guys fail to realize, is that it's not the club scene that is ****ed up, it's you that is ****ed up lol. What i mean is me being a pretty good looking guy who takes care of himself, I get hit on, sometimes ven pretty overly, on a pretty regular basis, sometimes even in front of my woman.
IF you are are a catch, women will ****ing find you lol. you don't have to go to a club to be seen or noticed by women. When I was going ot AA meetings women would find their way to sit by me or make sure they introduced thesmelves to me after meetings, in one case, even ask me to take her to the gym lol, like every day. When I go to starbucks, which is one day a week just to get out the house i sit down and do my work, how there is one particular waitress who goes out of her way to talk to me. I had left my gym bag at the gym one day about a year ago, went back to get it later that day and I was on my way out that night and was dressed to the brim, the next day I showed up at the gym, the girl at the front desk has been eying me sense. She asked me is the woman that comes in all the time with me my girlfriend, when i said yes she said that's too bad lol. She's 18 by the way, in college to be a nutritionist, and has the nicest ass i have ever seen in my life (a real, athletic woman's ass on a fat ass).. oh yeah she doesn't drink or smoke. Or how one day I was in barnes and noble and this nice redhead came up to me and wanted to "ask me if that is a good book I was reading" (the God Delusion), we ended up dating/sex for about a month and a half. One day I went and went to talk to a group of people in impatient rehab, AA related stuff, hospitals and instantiations, what your life was like, what happened and how I am now.. the woman that was there.. quite cute I might add, asked me I wanted to have coffee. I did, and she wanted it lol, i could tell but i didn't make a move on her.
my whole point is, that if you are catch, women will find you. if you aren't women aren't going to magically jump on your ****, regardless of the setting.
Instead of focusing on the venue, get your diet game down to a T, work out daily, read some **** besides this forum lol. Become the guy that women see in their eye and say humm. I would like to lick whip cream off his nutts. You know you got a woman down for whatever when she is licking whip cream off your nads man.
