First I'd like to talk about my style of game to do some grounding , I'm strictly upfront & straightforward with what I want , Thats my whole game, And I also can be awfully honest sometimes .
I instantly qualify women in the beginning to make sure they have 3 main initial qualities which I use later on as leverage as well and to make sure they're not creepy/stalkers, It's like giving them enough rope to hang themselves if they **** up , Primarily it's honesty , open-mindedness & a sense of adventure .
If they yes to all these questions initially ,I tell them why I asked them and how I make sure of the presence of these initial qualities in the women I talk to .
If no to any of them , I eject , THANKS but no thanks , But it of course depends on what I'm looking for at the moment .
Then I tell them what I'm exactly looking for and tell them whats going to happen expecting that that they're going to agree anyway , I dun ask them , I tell them .
They could say agree or disagree or give me some **** , And I persist long enough to remind them of how they're going to pass on a great chance to be with someone as masterful as me , If they're still talking to me , It's done .
This basically saves me a lot of time and needs no game and is very effective offline & online .
In these initial stages I have complete dominance , But somehow INSIDE the relationships I WANT to have the dominance of someone like the guy in "Taming the Shrew" or "Swept Away" (without the hitting) , Thats like my goal , But I can't still reach that level of dominance completely yet .
here's one recent "Online" example to be very specific :
2:01:32 pm)CC:Hey Arianna , My name is CC
(2:01:47 pm)HB:*Ariana
(2:01:53 pm)HB:Lol, Hey CC
(2:02:17 pm)CC:=D , well I
(2:02:34 pm)CC:was going through your profile coz I found you very attractive and
(2:03:02 pm)CC:I'd like to be very straightforward and honest with you regarding my intentions from the beginning
(2:03:13 pm)CC:can you handle that ?
(2:04:18 pm)HB:*shrug* Try me.
(2:05:15 pm)CC:Well , I'm looking for someone who is not only attractive but also very honest , imaginative(smart) , & have a sense of adventure
(2:05:40 pm)CC:to have casual no strings attached relationship with
(2:05:57 pm)CC:I'll have to get to know you a lil though before getting in your pants
(2:06:02 pm)HB:Well, those are very healthy ideals to have, in my opinion.
(2:06:20 pm)HB:Especially when starting off with someone.
(2:07:03 pm)CC:Well , I'm talking to you coz you seemed to give off that impression when i read your profile
(2:07:12 pm)CC:and just looking at you made me have fantasies
(2:07:23 pm)CC:really wild ones actually
(2:07:31 pm)HB:My goodness! lol
(2:08:19 pm)CC:yeah , Thats totally true , And I would love to exchange mind-blowing orgasms and some interesting convo as well afterwards
(2:08:21 pm)HB:Well, I'm flattered you would fancy me to have your ideals. However, I may have to mention in my profile that I do plan to be moving to New York in a matter of weeks.
(2:09:13 pm)CC: p.s You know I think I like the way you talk =D , I wonder how it'd sound
(2:09:36 pm)CC:but anyways , Lets talk on IM first and we'll see where it goes from there
(2:10:12 pm)CC:I'll get to know you a lil , we'll play a little game called Cube
(2:10:33 pm)CC:I'll tell you things about you even your best friends wouldn't know in a 100 year
(2:10:50 pm)HB:Hmm.... sounds like an interesting game.
(2:10:58 pm)CC:and then maybe we'll exchange an orgasm or several online
(2:11:45 pm)CC:I love to be very sensual though , So tell me if that doesn't turn you on , Coz it's essential for me
(2:13:19 pm)CC: Does my honesty offend you hun ?
(2:14:27 pm)HB:Ah, not at all. Although your messages are quite forward, I understand where you are coming from in terms of sensuality. It is a vital part of life for those who are very passionate.
(2:14:48 pm)HB:You'll have to pardon me, though, as I've got other things going on presently before you came along.
(2:15:27 pm)CC: =D , I get the feeling that you're really so sweet & delicious
(2:15:41 pm)CC:I dunno why I feel a LOT like tasting you
(2:15:52 pm)CC:but I'll tell you sth
(2:16:22 pm)CC:It's completely up to you to decide if you want to do this and it's cool in both decisions , But
(2:16:36 pm)CC:even though I hate to sound like i'm bragging
(2:16:52 pm)CC:I'm a master at what I do , but dun take my word for it
(2:17:18 pm)CC:So I just wouldn't pass on a chance like that , But it's up to you still
(2:19:43 pm)HB:Indeed, I can tell you're feeling rather hot right now.. hehe, but I can't tell you my attention is not divided at the moment.
(2:20:18 pm)CC: Same here =D
(2:20:46 pm)HB:
(2:20:47 pm)CC:If you aren't a lil wet yourself
(2:21:37 pm)CC:So , You down ?
(2:22:49 pm)HB:I've already told you, I'm busy. lol
(2:23:04 pm)HB:I've got paperwork to do in order to arrange my settlement into NY
(2:24:30 pm)CC:lol , I love it when a woman acts like she's not into to it and like to be treated like a lady ...etc and all that hyporcrite BS when
(2:24:50 pm)CC:she's in reality a kinky freak behind the sheets
(2:24:57 pm)HB:Hmm....
(2:25:09 pm)HB:Actually, every human being on this planet has a wild side to them...
(2:25:13 pm)CC:I get the feeling you're very wild
(2:25:52 pm)HB:But some people, especially ladies, prefer to reserve that to those who can provoke it in them. Usually those who are their types.
(2:26:38 pm)CC:Their types
(2:26:42 pm)CC:you mean like "Man"
(2:26:56 pm)HB:Mhm. Depending on your definition of a man.
(2:27:33 pm)CC:yeah , a real man
(2:27:41 pm)HB:To some women, a gentleman is a huge turn on, bonding is a huge turn on, etc. Some women are "lesbians" so, no man. lol same goes for men. It's all about the individual.
(2:28:25 pm)CC:well I'm a gentleman
(2:28:28 pm)HB:To me, intellect is a huge turn on. And without it, no man can pass. Lol
(2:28:31 pm)CC:=D
(2:28:36 pm)HB:xD
(2:29:21 pm)CC:Right , like you dun get hot like the rest of women are like most of the day
(2:29:33 pm)HB:Who says human beings don't get hot?
(2:29:54 pm)CC:media says that men are the horny species lol
(2:29:55 pm)HB:But what you are talking about is carnal desire. Everyone's carnal desire is different.
(2:30:01 pm)HB:LOL !
(2:30:20 pm)CC:women if they look horny they're considered sluts which is of course PURE BS
(2:30:36 pm)CC:while men are called studs
(2:30:50 pm)HB:You are very wise about that.
(2:31:17 pm)CC:Well , It's the charade women have to live through
(2:31:20 pm)HB:I see where you are going with this now, and I have to give you kudos for that!
(2:31:43 pm)HB:But I have to say, it is quite genuine for me, as the sentimental type, to be more reserved with myself.
(2:32:12 pm)CC:lol
(2:32:20 pm)HB:But that is not to say, I don't believe a woman would be very lucky to engage in your activities. x)
(2:32:45 pm)CC:I dunno why I got the feeling when yu said reserved
(2:33:06 pm)CC:and btw I'm very sensitive to feelings , some call it psyhic and stuff
(2:33:36 pm)CC:I felt like you have like a LOT of energy inside that need to come out
(2:33:51 pm)HB:Haha, indeed.
(2:34:01 pm)CC:more like , You're keeping a lot of emotions that need to be expressed
(2:34:14 pm)CC:I believe in very passionate ways but in away you felt like
(2:34:38 pm)CC:they weren't always understood and appreciated hence it was more like better to just keep them in
(2:35:45 pm)CC:and you're also so very sensitive & tender on the inside
(2:36:15 pm)HB:Very true. Although I use art, paintings and writings to express myself, so they're not frustrated or suppressed.
(2:36:58 pm)CC:You're trying to express them , But there's a LOT more that I can feel
(2:37:10 pm)CC:it's so explosive & euphoric in a way
(2:37:29 pm)CC:I really feel like holding you now to be honest
(2:38:07 pm)CC:in a way I COULD feel your heart
(2:38:45 pm)HB:Lol, that's very sweet.
(2:40:18 pm)CC:Actually I'd rather like to make love to you sensually building up to very wild
(2:40:31 pm)CC:rather than plain ol ****ing
(2:41:09 pm)CC:Lets spend some time together and see where it goes
(2:42:32 pm)HB:Well, CC, I'd have to let you know when I am free. Like I said, I've been pretty busy arranging paperwork for my plans. After that, I might be moving shortly afterwards.
(2:44:26 pm)CC:Sure , But I bet you can spare some time online so I could get to know what you're like
(2:44:29 pm)CC:remember the game
(2:44:41 pm)CC:And if you weren't interested you would have left from a long time
(2:44:52 pm)CC:so write ur IM and I'll add you
(2:46:50 pm)CC:But I won't ask you once more =)
(2:48:01 pm)HB
ardon the delay.
(2:48:12 pm)HB:My IM is *******
(2:51:50 pm)CC:I'll add you
(2:54:11 pm)HB:Cool! I'll catch you when I'm free then.
(2:54:17 pm)HB:I have to run
(2:54:41 pm)CC:sure , have fun hun *kisses*
(2:54:51 pm)CC:mine is ****
(2:54:54 pm)CC:see ya
I tend to get their IM , Qualify them more(Cube) ,Exchange a couple of orgasms and meet up .
It's pretty simple but it works for me in all situations .
Next I'm gonna try & define what dominance means to me now , And what questions I have and what are my answers based on my experience and then we'll see what changes or what I learn after more research and practice .
