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An older woman and possibly a mistake.

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Ok. Need some advice here gents.

Short story. Went to party with cousin and friends. Taxi to cousins, slept in bed with my cousins really close friend after a night of drinking (no kissing, or anything sexual at all). Woke up in the morning intertwined and started giving her a message. She seemed to be liking it but I never moved in for the kiss because her face was turned away from mine. I kind of let my hands wander to her breasts and massaged those too. Random cat came in and jumped on her pillow, scared her and she jumped up and went downstairs. We had breakfast with my cousin and she drove me and another to get my car and his car and I left with a wave goodbye. Did I mess up or should I call her and take her out for a real date? She is 34 and I'm 26 if that helps.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lets see... was the cat more than 51% black?

did the black cat pass in her path (bad luck)?

call her for petes sake! LOL
 
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Joe Stud said:
lets see... was the cat more than 51% black?

did the black cat pass in her path (bad luck)?

call her for petes sake! LOL
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:crackup:

OP: damn, dude how could you miss that that night ?!..

call her and ask her out, but BE BOLD, because you already screwed it once.
 
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I think you were on the right track. If you were massaging her and touching her breasts and she didn't pull away, she was clearly enjoying it. Don't worry about her not facing you yet. The kissing would have probably come later after she got more turned on.

Unfortunately, it doesn't take much to ruin the moment and knock the woman out of state. The cat thing was beyond your control. Maybe the door should have been left shut, but it is what it is.

You have nothing to lose by calling her and meeting up for a drink.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I think she may have used the cat as an excuse to get out of the situation. Pretended to get startled by the cat. How scary is a cat?
That doesn't mean she doesn't like you or whatever but maybe wasn't quite ready for the sex yet.
 
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Dear Zecko,
Yup I think,you are on the Money,but we shall never really know,that is of course if The M@n doesn't contact her.
 
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zekko said:
I think she may have used the cat as an excuse to get out of the situation. Pretended to get startled by the cat. How scary is a cat?
That doesn't mean she doesn't like you or whatever but maybe wasn't quite ready for the sex yet.
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This was what I thought as well. Still worth a shot, OP!
 
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if you slept in the same bed all night, massaged her tits and still haven't got your carrot wet then i think this horse had already bolted.
 
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