Inspired by some recent screwup, I've started brainstorming on how to prepare for closing. I sometimes miss out on GOOD opportunities because I wasn't mentally prepared for it. So I thought up some things, that I can imagine saying and doing (I also took some from the DJ bible).

Please contribute, especially for convo escalation! Some of these are pretty blatant, anyone got something more smooth?
I posted it in tips, maybe it is also helpful for some of you.


Escalation for closing
This implies that kino is already going on. These are only meant for when she IS ALREADY into you!

1. Steering convo to sex, or creating a "good opportunity"

• -Let me ask you a question. If you and I had sex, do you think it would be good?"
  (yes) GO
  (no) wtf, why not, i think it would be good etc (maybe you can still turn this around)
  (maybe, smiles) lets find out etc.
  (eeh no idea!/shocked) no, for me that's very important! because sex can be really good... (if she digs it, start advancing, give the eyes) i'd really like to find it out. GO
  
• -I was wondering, when you have sex, and you're on top, do you wear your hair open, or do you tie it back?
  (open) but doesnt it get in the way? It's gonna fall on top of my face. That can be pretty funny when we're kissing.
  (close) that's very good. (... it won't get in the way when we're kissing).
  If you have long hair yourself you can explore this topic further.
  
• -(Resistance) What, you don't want me to kiss you? Why not? What's so strange about it? Come on! (resist) Aw, but I really want to! Just a little bit! etc etc
  
• -If she looks you hard in the eyes, STARE CONTEST! While staring gradually move closer. Easy.
  
• -Do you smoke? (yes) But smoke smells bad. Do you think kissing a smoker tastes bad? (dunno) Let's find out. (if she turns away) Come on! This is purely scientific! In the name of research blah blah! (she giggles) go again
  
• -Do you smoke? (no) That's good. I don't like girls who smoke, it's not sexy. (blabla) And if you kiss a smoker, it doesn't taste good. I think that non-smokers are better kissers. You think so too? (give the look and go. If resistance, then "why not" blabla)
  
• -Mind block? Cant think of anything? Time is running out? NOW OR NEVER, GRAB HER!! (<- this has gotten me laid too haha)
  
• -You can afford to not be smooth all the time.

REJECTION, OH NO!
But with a recovery strategy, there's no need to fear rejection.

2. Insisting, not backing off yet

• -(kiss, turns head away) OH LOOK over there! (go again).
• -Ah come on, don't be like that. There's nothing wrong with that.
• -Sh, nobody's looking. (if true)
• -Sorry I can't help it if you dress so hot. (wow that's cheesy)
• -Come on, your lips look so nice/juicy/delicious, I need to have a taste(lol)

3. Backing off, but avoiding awkward talk

• -Whoops, hehe. I know, I'm like a little kid. If there's things I'm attracted to, I just have to touch it
• -Sorry, I'm just like that. I love to touch, it feels good.
• -Ah it's alright. Hehe, if I see something that I like I go and reach for it. No problem.
• -No problem, don't worry. It's no big deal. Hehe. (=your resistance doesn't bring me down).

4. Wait a bit and try again

• -After avoiding awkward talk: (no problem, we're still good, date goes on).
• -Move her somewhere else. Lets go over there. Look&point at something.
• -Bit later, go again. Rinse and repeat.
• -Aw come on thats not fair. You lead me on / look hot (tonight/in this dress/etc) and now you're gonna tease me like that?
  (make fun of her teasing you. haha. laugh. go again.)

5. She just doesn't want to!?

• -Don't be hurt (at least don't show it)
• -But you can show that you're somewhat disappointed (in her! not in your DJ skills haha)
• -NEXT! Or at least no contact for some time!
• -If she's just shy, no contact. If you want you can give it another chance. At least she'll know what to expect!