Fellow improving DJ's. This is my first post but I'm going to give my two cents here.
Let me start off with this. I think every AFC knows in his heart what he has to do to become what he wants to be whether that is a stud, a book worm, or outgoing.. whatever. It is the ones who do this with all of their power that ultimately succeed. BTW your life should NOT revolve around women. Let's say you are afraid of approaching women. You are not afraid of women are you? NO.
Every decision you make comes from emotions. You are afraid of the emotion you feel if you get rejected or stutter or stop talking. You are ultimately afraid of that. If you were not, why would it matter what happens? Why don't you care if you stutter with a friend? Because you wouldn't feel that embarrassment (emotion). Most AFC do everything in their power to AVOID this feeling because they think it's bad. Why is it bad? Because society tells us it is bad. It's just another emotion. Why can't you have fun with it? Because some event in your childhood made you embarrassed and you were terrified of that feeling. Now take a moment to dream up this moment in your life. Instead of blocking that feeling, embrace it and let it flow through you. When you are done and it feels normal almost, you will feel liberated. You see that this feeling cannot hurt you. It is just another emotion.
You know what you have to do but you don't know why. This is all that the Man's Transformation and Blueprint decoded tell you. WHY you have to do these things. If you want to waste 50 hours of your precious time to understand why do it. However, it'd be much better to jsut go an act. If it doesn't work, then you can always come back but you start with action.
Now I recommend going through the DJ bible just to get your base and solid foundation. However, when you are done. Leave for a little bit. Commit yourself to just improving on your skills that do and don't relate to women. Don't waste your time reading. GO OUT AND GO IMPROVE! Stop reading. This is what AFC's do imo. They read read read read read read act.... fail read read read read. Has any of this worked for anyone who wants to improve inner game? No. Most likely its read act act act act read act act act act. That's what improves us. But most AFC's will get too caught up in reading. You have all that it takes once you read the DJ bible. BELIEVE THIS! and stop wasting your time.
Last bit of advice. Make life fun. This is all women want. They want a guy who is fun to be with isn't insecure and doesn't need a women. She needs him. Haven't you seen a less than attractive guy with a very attractive women?:yes: And your just like
. Well that's because he's fun to be with. Again everything comes from emotions. That's life. Embrace your emotions and have fun. I saw a thread about why muscular men get women. Well imo, it's not because they look good totally. I won't dismiss that it makes men look better. However. Why? Because it is primal nature to think that a man with muscles has strength. A woman wants to be protected, sheltered. She doesn't WANT the power you are supposed to have. We as humans are not programmed that way and all of us already know this in our hearts. So for all of you inspiring DJ's I leave you with a Neil Strauss/Arnold Schwarzenegger quote:
It is what bodybuilders call the pain period. The 8th rep after your 7th when you feel dead tired and think you can't do it. (Always do that rep btw with good form.)
"Those who push themselves, and are willing to face pain, exhaustion, humiliation, rejection, or worse, are the ones who become champions. The rest are left on the sidelines."
Now it's time for me to become a champion. Hopefully this will be my first and last post for a while fellow DJ's.
Let me start off with this. I think every AFC knows in his heart what he has to do to become what he wants to be whether that is a stud, a book worm, or outgoing.. whatever. It is the ones who do this with all of their power that ultimately succeed. BTW your life should NOT revolve around women. Let's say you are afraid of approaching women. You are not afraid of women are you? NO.
Every decision you make comes from emotions. You are afraid of the emotion you feel if you get rejected or stutter or stop talking. You are ultimately afraid of that. If you were not, why would it matter what happens? Why don't you care if you stutter with a friend? Because you wouldn't feel that embarrassment (emotion). Most AFC do everything in their power to AVOID this feeling because they think it's bad. Why is it bad? Because society tells us it is bad. It's just another emotion. Why can't you have fun with it? Because some event in your childhood made you embarrassed and you were terrified of that feeling. Now take a moment to dream up this moment in your life. Instead of blocking that feeling, embrace it and let it flow through you. When you are done and it feels normal almost, you will feel liberated. You see that this feeling cannot hurt you. It is just another emotion.
You know what you have to do but you don't know why. This is all that the Man's Transformation and Blueprint decoded tell you. WHY you have to do these things. If you want to waste 50 hours of your precious time to understand why do it. However, it'd be much better to jsut go an act. If it doesn't work, then you can always come back but you start with action.
Now I recommend going through the DJ bible just to get your base and solid foundation. However, when you are done. Leave for a little bit. Commit yourself to just improving on your skills that do and don't relate to women. Don't waste your time reading. GO OUT AND GO IMPROVE! Stop reading. This is what AFC's do imo. They read read read read read read act.... fail read read read read. Has any of this worked for anyone who wants to improve inner game? No. Most likely its read act act act act read act act act act. That's what improves us. But most AFC's will get too caught up in reading. You have all that it takes once you read the DJ bible. BELIEVE THIS! and stop wasting your time.
Last bit of advice. Make life fun. This is all women want. They want a guy who is fun to be with isn't insecure and doesn't need a women. She needs him. Haven't you seen a less than attractive guy with a very attractive women?:yes: And your just like
. Well that's because he's fun to be with. Again everything comes from emotions. That's life. Embrace your emotions and have fun. I saw a thread about why muscular men get women. Well imo, it's not because they look good totally. I won't dismiss that it makes men look better. However. Why? Because it is primal nature to think that a man with muscles has strength. A woman wants to be protected, sheltered. She doesn't WANT the power you are supposed to have. We as humans are not programmed that way and all of us already know this in our hearts. So for all of you inspiring DJ's I leave you with a Neil Strauss/Arnold Schwarzenegger quote:It is what bodybuilders call the pain period. The 8th rep after your 7th when you feel dead tired and think you can't do it. (Always do that rep btw with good form.)
"Those who push themselves, and are willing to face pain, exhaustion, humiliation, rejection, or worse, are the ones who become champions. The rest are left on the sidelines."
Now it's time for me to become a champion. Hopefully this will be my first and last post for a while fellow DJ's.