Guys.. I'm very happy at this moment.. Things have changed in the past few months for me.. I've made a few posts on how to come out of my lonliness, how to attract a girl.. all those normal questions.. There have been slight changes

1. I was at a real estate agency with a friend of mine, the receptionist introduces herself and tells some really lame joke about me, asking my friend to make sure I do all the heavy lifting when moving..

2. Was driving the car, a group of hot girls on a saturday evening were screaming at me when they drove past me.. After that they were just besides me and making eye contact and waving at me like crazy..

3. I was at a pool with a group of friends.. There was this hot chick that followed us from sauna to pool all the way.. My sis came to me and said that the chick is checking me out.. Suddenly, she was near me and screamed HELP!!!!... I had to take her and swim across to shallow ground.. God, she was just grinding on me all the way. She was also outside the mens room when I was walking out.

4. On one single day, there was a chick at a restaurant and another chick at the gym.. Both made eye contact with me and smiled at me.. God, I just couldn't go and talk to them.

5. Finally, this was a nail in the head.. Met this hot chick at a salsa dance class. The eye contact, her smell, her hair.. was just amazing.. I just asked her name, got her entire life history.. I couldn't sleep that night. Her eyes just kept coming back to me..



Judging on this, I guess my hotness level has increased a bit. But still the same shy old guy.. I guess I have to come out of this and make a move, get a girl..

Anyway, this is what I've done with my life in the last 1 year.

1. Quit my job, joined the Airforce as an Officer. Just finished my training.
2. Started working out diligently, my physique is a lot better now.
3. Started taking salsa classes. I'm a really bad dancer.

Things I'm planning to do.

1. Get a motorbike. Ninja 250.. I love bike riding.
2. Start doing some bikram yoga classes.. Done a few and loved it. But difficult to accomodate with my workouts.


My aim, on my next birthday, I want to be a good dancer.. I want the girls to approach me.. Not sure whether it is possible, but lets c.

Thanks to this forum, I am happy this minute.

Chera said:

Things I'm planning to do.

1. Get a motorbike. Ninja 250.. I love bike riding.

Click to expand...

I have to stop you right there. If you plan on putting a chick on the back of that bike, you will need something bigger. I suggest a CB1000RR or a TL1000 GSXR. A 250 is like a moped.....

500cc is a good compromise, because it keeps you from dating fat chicks. I had a Suzuki GS500e. Petite women were no problem on the back, but if the girl was over about 130 pounds, then the bike's rear end sagged in an embarrassing fashion.

Dear Chera,
Home Town boy makes good....I am very pleased for you the dancing is very important it is at the least a great training ground Mentally,socially and physically you win all the way....As to your attractiveness,I find it goes in rashes.For example last week on one day I met a new Lady,resurrected an old flame and buried the hatchet with a Woman I am much attracted too....That we are cyclical beasts is a certainty,but it could also be that a happenstance lifts your morale and in doing so ellicits positive reactions in others.

Bible_Belt said:

500cc is a good compromise, because it keeps you from dating fat chicks. I had a Suzuki GS500e. Petite women were no problem on the back, but if the girl was over about 130 pounds, then the bike's rear end sagged in an embarrassing fashion.

Click to expand...

Well, that's something I have to think about..

Scaramouche said:

Dear Chera,
Home Town boy makes good....I am very pleased for you the dancing is very important it is at the least a great training ground Mentally,socially and physically you win all the way....As to your attractiveness,I find it goes in rashes.For example last week on one day I met a new Lady,resurrected an old flame and buried the hatchet with a Woman I am much attracted too....That we are cyclical beasts is a certainty,but it could also be that a happenstance lifts your morale and in doing so ellicits positive reactions in others.

Click to expand...

Scaramouche, sounds like you are having a great time.. I guess you're right.. It is like a snowballing effect I guess.

Nkognito said:

I have to stop you right there. If you plan on putting a chick on the back of that bike, you will need something bigger. I suggest a CB1000RR or a TL1000 GSXR. A 250 is like a moped.....

Click to expand...

Chera, instead of listening to a very bad recommendation like this one and potentially getting killed (seriously Nkognito? Passenger prospects notwithstanding, recommending liter supersports to someone who could be a beginner?), read this thread.

If you want girls of high quality you wouldn't have joined the military.

That’s awesome, improving yourself and the quality of attractiveness is all that it takes when it comes to becoming a chick magnet. Sounds like you’re already attracting hut girls from every angle. It’s all about positive attitude and a healthy body.

I talk about this all the time, but it’s important so I’ll mention it again: before a woman considers whether or not you’re good boyfriend material (or even if your just good in the sac), she just wants to know if you’re the guy she can have fun with. Once you get her to open up and have fun with you, the question of whether you’re good boyfriend material becomes irrelevant to her at that point. Wahahahahaha!

The whole point behind having a good sense of humor is to get her to calm down and relax so you can move in for the kill. If you’re funny, you’ll take away all the worries in the woman’s mind. You’ll be desirable because YOU will be the guy who can make her enjoy herself and get a much needed break from her stressful modern lifestyle. Stick with this and all of your goals will become reality.

BigJimbo said:

If you want girls of high quality you wouldn't have joined the military.

Click to expand...

You are not getting it are you?? I joined the military not for the girls, but for myself.. I had the fascinations for the armed forces when I was a kid.. I thought I'll live that dream now.

Just a word on the military especially officer training.. Guys, they teach you how to be a leader, how to be decisive, how to win the guys working for you.. And above all how to be a man who can be trusted.. They push you to your breaking point physically and mentally. Sometimes you'll wish that you just didn't sign up for this. But after completing the training, you'll agree that this was a life changing experience.

If anyone is thinking of joining the military as an officer, I would recommend you do it. Even if it is not ur thing, once u come out u'll be in high demand in the civilian world.

vatoloco said:

Chera, instead of listening to a very bad recommendation like this one and potentially getting killed (seriously Nkognito? Passenger prospects notwithstanding, recommending liter supersports to someone who could be a beginner?), read this thread.

Click to expand...

Thanks for the thread Vatoloco.. Never knew a thread existed like that.