Last night, for the second time of my life, i had sex with my girlfriend. I went for approximately 5 hours, sex, some varying positions, blow-jobss, etc, and i did not *** once(her on the otherhand, thats a MUCH different story). Now i know its far from impossible for me to come because well you get the idea, but whats up with that?

The sex felt good, and no i was not wearing a condom(shes on birthcontrol and because we had sex once before(condom that time) i knew i wasnt even gonna come close to coming). So whats the deal?

What can i do? I'd like to atleast sometimes especially because she felt bad that i didnt and she did so many times(i said it still felt really good).

I know most guys have exactly the opposite problem, coming too soon, but have any of you experienced this, and if so, what have you done to remedy it?

[This message has been edited by Jester (edited 11-11-2002).]

Are you on any medication at all? Specifically mood altering pills like Paxil?

No, no medication.

i believe there mayj ust not be enough friction.

I had this same problem a little while ago.

Now i see it as a gift, its like an off and on switch for blowing your load.

Bang her until she orgasms a few times then start to really focus on what your doing in your head. Realize how good those pink lips feel around you and that usually gets me off.