hey there,

Met this lady at a bar, She was just a normal looking average older lady, she looked very young for her age, she was 49 but looked much younger, looking at her i would say she was 34/32 .

Anyway she kept looking at me, so i thought why not smiled back got a response from her she called me over ( beleive thats the first that ever happned to me) . So i went over with 2 drinks one for me and one for her.... i ws guseeing looking at her glass she drank the house wine... so got her a glas of that... anyway we started chatting, getting to know one another etc... now and again she kept flirting with me, saying how much she liked my hair, how much she went to the gym etc..... she started running her hand through my hair and believe you me it was an awesome feeling...

Then she told me she liked younger men, i thought ok asked the reason why, and she replied back with the words, stamina, good body's, the rawness of younger men.

But when it came to mentally she avoided the answer, now i know it can put a women off for me to ask that but i guess i asked out of curiosity. (beleive you me i was kciking myself ).

So my question is simple Do older women find younger men attractive on a physical aspect or a mental aspect?

I don't think it's much different from older men being attracted to younger women. Why do we like younger women? Hotter bodies and more optimism, passion for life, etc. that younger people have. Plus being able to attract someone younger is an ego boost that proves the older person "still has it."

I would guess that older women like younger men for the same reasons. I would say it is more so for the physical, i.e. toned body, stamina, etc. But I'm sure the fun youthful attitude is a plus too.

cassanova35 said:

Do older women find younger men attractive on a physical aspect or a mental aspect?

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Nobody knows why including the older women.
However I think that some of them just chase younger men because being part of the cougar fad appeals to them. Women are easily led and easily brainwashed by the media..

Dear Casanova,
Many older Women if they have avoided the gene for Bulimia,stay trim,if they exercise they find that they look good,often they have time and money to go to gymnasiums,buy their own equipment,many of them spend more money on health supplements than on regular food.Some will indulge in hormone supplements.....Its mainly about ego,looking good with some young Guy on their Arm.....At 49,in general the sex is secondary,but with some few Ladies important...I spend a lot of time Dancing,many Women will get their ego enhancement by looking good on the Floor....One Lady of my acquaintence spends $15.000 per annum on lessons,her interest in the carnal side of life is about zero....As to your minds,well it's nice to see you have a sense of humour Casanova.

I wouldn't have anything to do with women over 32, and I'm 35. I do have a customer blond late 50s rich woman with nice hooters who flirts the heck out of me and I think that I'd do her if the chance presented, but go out of my way for it?? NO. It's both physical and mental. They are seduced by my mythical self. They know I'm different and evil. They just know.

They want a man that is less experienced than them,so they can run the relationship on their terms-like society tells them they can. Either that or they want a flesh dildo

sodbuster said:

They want a man that is less experienced than them,so they can run the relationship on their terms-like society tells them they can. Either that or they want a flesh dildo

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This is a good point ^ . Control of a man is not ever far below their surface is it ?