So far on my way towards becoming a DJ I have thought of a few things that may help others:

The Looks Scale

Aw yes, she is a HB9, fvcking hot . SHE is this, and SHE is that, but what are YOU? I've notice that many people give their HB rating of the girl they want to communicate with, but I don't think many people realize that if you are giving a rating to somebody else then you can also be rated too. Therefore IF you use the HB scale then you should already be a 10 on your scale. If you think of yourself below a 10 then you pretty much start out in debt. So work on yourself to become that 10 or shoot, be an 11 and then no matter how hot that HB10 is you know that you're not 'lower' than her.

Singing, in the car

While I've been trying to bring out my DJness I've been making myself sing more in the car. I'll plug my ipod in and play a song that I like (classic rock) and I'll sing on my way to my destination. At first I would only sing just a little bit and when cars would pass I would stop because I would get self-conscious. I noticed this and I really worked to try and keep singing even if another car was beside me. I thought they would laugh and make fun of me, but after realizing that I shouldn't even care I kept singing. Once I was at a stop light playing some Sublime and a lady looked through my window to see me singing vividly and started to laugh. I just started to laugh and smile as well. I believe just singing has helped me to improve my speaking along with my overall mood.

Meditation

Something I've wanted to do was meditate which is sitting or laying down and just focusing on breathing. This really helps if you're nervous, stressed...etc. actually it just helps period. If you have some anxiety about what to do with a girl or whatever problem, meditate and relax to clear your mind. At first when I tried to meditate I could only sit for 5 minutes and I started to lose focus, but as I kept with it, it became easier and more relaxing. I challenge you to try and meditate for 10 minutes straight. You have nothing to lose.



Many more to come of course. Also I was wondering if anybody was down to start a new boot camp so I would have more motive to do the work.

The Experience said:

So far on my way towards becoming a DJ I have thought of a few things that may help others:

The Looks Scale

Aw yes, she is a HB9, fvcking hot . SHE is this, and SHE is that, but what are YOU? I've notice that many people give their HB rating of the girl they want to communicate with, but I don't think many people realize that if you are giving a rating to somebody else then you can also be rated too. Therefore IF you use the HB scale then you should already be a 10 on your scale. If you think of yourself below a 10 then you pretty much start out in debt. So work on yourself to become that 10 or shoot, be an 11 and then no matter how hot that HB10 is you know that you're not 'lower' than her.

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NEVER be afraid to shoot for what you're attracted to. Be it a 10, 8, 11, a girl that's a 5 with zits or whatever. Screw the 3 second rule. Go on instinct and impulse.. approach when you're ready. If she's smoking hot, and she is checking you out, too, she's gonna think you're a chump with no confidence if you don't at least approach and say something. Girls want to feel validated and appreciated, but not by the creepers that hit on them all the time. The worst that can happen is you get shot down, but so what?? You are probably just doing the next guy a favor! Approaching, closing and dating is a NUMBERS game. If it were easy for most guys, this website would be obsolete. Either you have game or you don't. Just like the game of golf, easy to learn, but hard to MASTER.

Singing and meditation? Meh.. each to his own.

Good luck to everyone still on this website looking for the magic bullet. lol.

Well I do agree with what your saying, but you missed my point. I was trying to say that you should become a 10 yourself by becoming a more all around person, so then you start with a better foundation. What's the point of doing anything if you don't start with a good foundation?

And the other two I threw in there because they were different info. than what's being posted. Although meditation is something worth trying.