Cautious about getting into a relationship...

After sitting around at this site for almost a year now, I've learned to not be AFC, generate interested, and most importantly increased the value in myself.

I'm an artist and a free spirited 25 year old Entrepreneur with no degree. However, I've been in the field for quite some time and I've been able to charm up even the most elevated type of rich women of all sorts ages.

In the past year, I've dated all sorts of women from 19 years old to 32. Undeclared freshmen college students to single parents with careers already to international celebrities who sing and act.

But this thread isn't about my success story. I'm more interested in my search for knowledge from this community. give me advice, on women, happiness and money.

For example; I finally met someone who is interesting. All I can say is that she is a fvking awesome our conversation is just great! she is a person who has a business degree, can play ice hockey, rock climb, and chop up a good conversation with me for hours. All my life i've been hyping myself in getting a trophy wife.... a woman who is mature, pretty, nice body type, and is capable of standing on her own two feet if she needed to.

Shes got a decent athlete's body.but her face is about 5.

I like this girl a lot and I'm very interested to see where this goes... I just hope I don't break hers or mine

The way I see it...and I've been single all my life...the way I see it, if a girl is "right for you", she won't get in the way of what you really enjoy in life. You will both be headed in "similar directions" and spending time with her will seem like more of a default/relaxed state than "something else on your schedule", that you have to take time away from enjoying life to do.

^That's how it's been with all my (non-AFC) friends who have ended up "settling in" with one girl. It just happened, they werent looking for it, but things flowed so easily and naturally that things only became better. They didnt give up any of their friends, interests, travel, or hobbies.

squirrels said:

The way I see it...and I've been single all my life...the way I see it, if a girl is "right for you", she won't get in the way of what you really enjoy in life. You will both be headed in "similar directions" and spending time with her will seem like more of a default/relaxed state than "something else on your schedule", that you have to take time away from enjoying life to do.

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Yes . Women who make for successful LTRs have somehow acquired the skill of 'molding' .They skillfully shape themselves to accomodate the flow and demands of your life rather than compete with your commitments for your attention.
Sadly that particular skill has been lost or trained out of most women by feminism, a liberal education and their angry divorced mothers .

Beware the new woman in your life who tells you that your beloved golf is a "stupid " game .