“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hard to find the balance between showing too much interest and too little.

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what do you guys do with girls/plates to keep a balance of interest going?


lately ive realized that i tend to show too little interest thinking that im avoiding being needy but instead i come off as not-interested and girls lose interest (thinking that im not into them).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wow, I have a problem with this, too! Hope someone can offer a solution. I also don't quite get how to "focus on her winning you"just yet, but I am working on it.
 
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Different things work for different guys.

what do you guys do with girls/plates to keep a balance of interest going?
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For me what works is placing my plates in the last order of priorities of things in my life. My family and myself come first, then my social obligations (friends, work, etc.), then my hobbies (motorcycling, working on my house, etc.) Women come in at 4th. By placing women that low in the totem pole, it places me in a state of "I don't really need you" that women find fascinating. I don't qualify to them. They're the ones qualifying to me to be the lucky recipients of my time and attention.

Now don't get me wrong. Female company is something that we all desire but, in my experience, it is when you're not ardently pursuing it that things tend to fall into place...
 
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You've got to be able to read woman man. Girls like a chase, but if you over do it then they will move on. It's okay to be distant, but you also got to know when the time is right to poke your head back in and say hey! Then you get her emotions and juices flowing again, then all of a sudden.. you become distant again. You just keep repeating this cycle. You got to make her know that every time you are around she will be having fun and be happy. This is what makes her miss you. No contact/coldness is an amazing tactic that works, but it all goes to waste if you never return back. Woman love attention, and even if they aren't admitting to it when you ignore them they are going crazy inside. That's when you stop by again, even if you just talk to her for a couple minutes, she will be happy and feel wanted and special and she will like you even more. Learn the cycle man.

Good luck.

-Scars
 
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Scars said:
You've got to be able to read woman man. Girls like a chase, but if you over do it then they will move on. It's okay to be distant, but you also got to know when the time is right to poke your head back in and say hey! Then you get her emotions and juices flowing again, then all of a sudden.. you become distant again. You just keep repeating this cycle. You got to make her know that every time you are around she will be having fun and be happy. This is what makes her miss you. No contact/coldness is an amazing tactic that works, but it all goes to waste if you never return back. Woman love attention, and even if they aren't admitting to it when you ignore them they are going crazy inside. That's when you stop by again, even if you just talk to her for a couple minutes, she will be happy and feel wanted and special and she will like you even more. Learn the cycle man.

Good luck.

-Scars
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this was good post. thanks man.
 
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Great wisdom, Scars.
 
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