“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Should i of gone for the Kiss?

Essa Rios

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So i met this girl on Craigslist and after 2months of emails we finally decided
to meet in person. We did exchange pic's before but that was it. After the
1st month of emailng she wanted to meet but i said i had plans already (i wanted to built up her interest as i was not bust at all.) I guess it worked as
she was always asking to meet up. Finally i said yes and we met
Saturday night for dinner.

Very cute girl and we had great conversation plus she was laughing at all my jokes. I was on fire that night as everything i said made her laugh. After dinner we went to walk around and listen to a band playing by the park.
I was teasing her that we should dance but she said that she didnt know how. So i grab her hand and start teaching her even thou i can't dance, i was faking that i did :)

While hearing the band play i put my arm around her shoulders and i notice
she wraps her arm around my back (great sign i thinK)
Then we go get ice cream, we share a cup and i feed her with my spoon
and she accepts. After talking some more i walk her to her car.

Said i had a great time and would love to take her out again. She smiles and
said sure with a large smile. Was thinking of going for a kiss but i guess i
chicken out so i gave her a 5second hug, then we talked some more and gave her another 5second hug. Was i wrong not to go for the kiss???
I wanted to play it cool and not be too pushy. Thoughts!!!!!
 

CantTouchMyStyle

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I live to get laid, so, I always try to escalate. I don't care what the situation is.

Honestly, the girl wanted you to kiss her.

She may think you're gay if you don't kiss her the next time you see her. But, don't beat yourself up over it.
 

Tiguere

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Make the craigslist hoe say no. She got free dinner ..free ice cream...free comic relief

What did you get?
 

blackwolf

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i dont care anymore when im with a girl. i just go for the kiss all the time cause i learnt when i dont i always regret it. and almost always i get kissed back anyway. even if they dont like you they just push you away, big deal.

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While hearing the band play i put my arm around her shoulders and i notice
she wraps her arm around my back (great sign i thinK) <--- should of kissed

Then we go get ice cream, we share a cup and i feed her with my spoon and she accepts. <-- again

After talking some more i walk her to her car. <--- again
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

DJDanny

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Not even reading your post. The answer is yes. The answer is always yes,
 
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