With girls that are "hot," I have had this issue occur more than once in the last few months: great first date (ends in kissing or in one memorable instance a BJ in the parking lot outside the bar) and then for date #2 I invite them to my house to watch a movie, and they are game and they show up, and then I just don't make a move.
I have noticed that with girls that are merely "cute," I have a really nice progression most of the time: kiss at end of first date, extended kissing and groping at end of second date (or sex if they are easy), and usually sex at end of third date. This is assuming we like each other and what not. Usually I have no problem making a move on the "cute" girl when she is over for the movie.
Obviously, when I am with a girl I consider "hot" and it is a second date that makes me be in my head and I do not make the move as I should. Is there any way to overcome that crap? How sadly ironic that I am depriving myself of who I desire the most.
Also, I am torn about inviting girls over to "watch a movie." With a "cute" girl, it seems perfect because it puts us alone in a private place and helps facilitate sex.
But with a "hot" girl, I find sitting on my sofa to be torture because for some reason it seems all the harder to make a move than if we were, say, at a loud bar and standing really close to one another. She just seems so damn far away. Then I start thinking about it and get all in my head. And knowing that I kissed her before doesn't seem to make it any easier.
What the heck is wrong with me that I can have trouble kissing a girl once I already tongued her down the last time we went out? And more importantly, any advice on how to fix this problem?
I have noticed that with girls that are merely "cute," I have a really nice progression most of the time: kiss at end of first date, extended kissing and groping at end of second date (or sex if they are easy), and usually sex at end of third date. This is assuming we like each other and what not. Usually I have no problem making a move on the "cute" girl when she is over for the movie.
Obviously, when I am with a girl I consider "hot" and it is a second date that makes me be in my head and I do not make the move as I should. Is there any way to overcome that crap? How sadly ironic that I am depriving myself of who I desire the most.
Also, I am torn about inviting girls over to "watch a movie." With a "cute" girl, it seems perfect because it puts us alone in a private place and helps facilitate sex.
But with a "hot" girl, I find sitting on my sofa to be torture because for some reason it seems all the harder to make a move than if we were, say, at a loud bar and standing really close to one another. She just seems so damn far away. Then I start thinking about it and get all in my head. And knowing that I kissed her before doesn't seem to make it any easier.
What the heck is wrong with me that I can have trouble kissing a girl once I already tongued her down the last time we went out? And more importantly, any advice on how to fix this problem?
