All I have to say is this;
If you have your own place, if you have a job, if you have decent looks, there is no excuse in the world that you shouldn't be trying with girls. This post is for some of you who are so ungrateful and so frightened to approach girls even though you have the resources necessary.
I have never had trouble attracting women, just keeping them. But I lost my job and my apartment do to layoffs six months ago. As you can imagine, I have had a hard time surviving, yet alone dating. It's hard to date when you are on a budget and live with family. It's hard to buy clothes and take a girl anywhere on unemployment benefits. I hope that you guys who are doing well out there are trying your best to get girls ALL the time.
If I had a fraction of what you guys have, I would tear up this town. You have no idea how hard it is to get women when you are unemployed. I wish that guys would experience this just to see how grateful you would be, to know you already have all the resources needed. Although, I would never wish anyone to be unemployed. I get really annoyed when someone uses excuses like "I'm shy, or I don't feel like going out, or she had a boyfriend". Who cares! You have your own place, you have a paycheck, you have your health, you may have a car, USE IT! You know what I have to do to sleep w girls? Either go to their place or get a hotel room. She often refuses because she doesn't want to feel like a "sluvt". She may live with parents, she may have a roomate, she may not feel comfortable, she may have a boyfriend, she may also expect the man over thirty to have his own place. So I have to jump through all sorts of loops to get her in bed. But, soon I will be on my feet, and this experience has taught me that if I had a decent job, an apartment, and a nice car (just the basics) I will be unstoppable. Some job leads for summer, I can't wait. I hope all of you who have the basics won't stop from hitting on girls. It is A LOT harder when you don't have the basics. Use that to your advantage. You don't need any advice, just courage. Go up and talk to that girl, go buy some nice clothes, be grateful for what you have. Take that girl out on a date, who cares that it costs you 25 dollars to find out about someone, that's life. I'm not saying don't over spend and all that. But be proud that you have the resources of taking a woman out to dinner, drinks, or whatever. Be proud when you pay, because if she is no good, you won't pay again. There are so many in this economy who can't even take a girl out to coffee yet alone dinner.
Peace.
If you have your own place, if you have a job, if you have decent looks, there is no excuse in the world that you shouldn't be trying with girls. This post is for some of you who are so ungrateful and so frightened to approach girls even though you have the resources necessary.
I have never had trouble attracting women, just keeping them. But I lost my job and my apartment do to layoffs six months ago. As you can imagine, I have had a hard time surviving, yet alone dating. It's hard to date when you are on a budget and live with family. It's hard to buy clothes and take a girl anywhere on unemployment benefits. I hope that you guys who are doing well out there are trying your best to get girls ALL the time.
If I had a fraction of what you guys have, I would tear up this town. You have no idea how hard it is to get women when you are unemployed. I wish that guys would experience this just to see how grateful you would be, to know you already have all the resources needed. Although, I would never wish anyone to be unemployed. I get really annoyed when someone uses excuses like "I'm shy, or I don't feel like going out, or she had a boyfriend". Who cares! You have your own place, you have a paycheck, you have your health, you may have a car, USE IT! You know what I have to do to sleep w girls? Either go to their place or get a hotel room. She often refuses because she doesn't want to feel like a "sluvt". She may live with parents, she may have a roomate, she may not feel comfortable, she may have a boyfriend, she may also expect the man over thirty to have his own place. So I have to jump through all sorts of loops to get her in bed. But, soon I will be on my feet, and this experience has taught me that if I had a decent job, an apartment, and a nice car (just the basics) I will be unstoppable. Some job leads for summer, I can't wait. I hope all of you who have the basics won't stop from hitting on girls. It is A LOT harder when you don't have the basics. Use that to your advantage. You don't need any advice, just courage. Go up and talk to that girl, go buy some nice clothes, be grateful for what you have. Take that girl out on a date, who cares that it costs you 25 dollars to find out about someone, that's life. I'm not saying don't over spend and all that. But be proud that you have the resources of taking a woman out to dinner, drinks, or whatever. Be proud when you pay, because if she is no good, you won't pay again. There are so many in this economy who can't even take a girl out to coffee yet alone dinner.
Peace.
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