“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How was your weekend? What did you do?

Warrior74

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Friday night - Went out with the 22 year old and her international student friends, had a great time. Lots of making out, no close, her friends pulled the old "you rode with us, you're leaving with us" routine. Went to the pool hall afterwards and got the number of the cute bartender.

Saturday - Chilled with an old FB during the day, we washed our cars and watch a movie, I think she wants to start it back up, but I'm taking my time. Afternoon BBQ with friends, watched the UFC fights (fvck you Silva), and went bar hopping. Ended up with 4 numbers, met up with some chics at 2 am at my boys place and didn't close the deal, but made out with the friend. She was kinda chunky but I played wing man and took one for the team, took her to waffle house so my boy could hit, he texted me when he was done and brought her back. He paid me back for the food. I'm a good friend right? lol.

Sunday - rest and recovery, finished some work for clients. Got told I was cute by the 21 year old at the local pizza place. Went for the number but she said she was dating someone seriously and couldn't, meh. I was tired, wasn't about to put in any extra effort. Watched Breaking Bad. Called it a night.

Didn't close any deals, but I just had fun...it wasn't a big deal. Good weekend with the fellas and barhopping.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Kailex

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Friday - Weathered Thursday's hangover. I wasn't in any shape/form to go out, plus I had to rest up for Saturday work and going out Saturday/Sunday.

Saturday - Hit up a club with some friends. Many, many peoples. Number closed on 2. There was one girl within the social circle that wanted me to be there, she's the one I talked to the least and the one I ended up with at the end of the night. She said that seeing me flirt, dance, and talk with everyone else was driving her insane. Nice.

Sunday - Hit up a Knicks game with my "Oneitis" from my Journal. Was a good time to be had and saw Dwyane Wade in top form. I had come back from Saturday evening at 5:30 AM so I was mostly zoned out here, but we had a good time.

Monday - I feel like I need a weekend for my weekend.
 

tinctrar

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Friday night - hung out with my single mom plate. Good times. Took her back home at around 7 AM and slept for a few hours.

Saturday day - worked on my car (added a SRI for my Acura) and then hit the gym.

Saturday night - Hit up the Palms for some good food and good eye-candy. Closed 2 numbers. Came home relatively early (about 4:30 AM)

Sunday day - Sundays are always about doing nothing for me. I spent the majority of the day catching up on football (World Cup stuff) and spoke with my family about it. Football is huge is our culture and Sunday is usually the family day even though they are on the other side of the country. Of course gym and some basketball as well for activity.

Stayed in last night - pretty good weekend for me.
 

lorekeeper

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Friday night worked till midnight. Got back home by 1, hit the bar by 1:45, dead empty head back home and crashed.

Saturday: had a dressup party to go to (skipped football, first game I've missed in 3 years), dressed up and went to breakfast, my costume looked like it was thrown together compared to how the others had dressed, started drinking at noon. Had my last drink at 7am. Glad I paced myself. Had my interest in my lap playing videogames all night and she fell asleep on me at 6am. Did not make a move, but didn't get a panic attack either. One of the most enjoyable nights I've had this year.

Got back home 8am Sunday, jumped in the shower and went to work till 6pm still sorta drunk. Got back home and took out the organizer for sat nights party for dinner, called my intrest from the night before to go get icecream, then went back home.

Gonna invite her over for dinner tommirow, well see what happens.
 

5string

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Here it comes from one of the older, more boring guys on here. Friday....got up, gave the wife an injection and then went to work. Got off, came home and took the wife out for pizza. Came back to the house, showed her who the man was again and crashed. Saturday....got up, washed off the courtyard and picked up dog turds. Walked my two German Shepherds. Played my guitar and banjo for a bit among other things. Hung out with wife. Had a nice talk and then chased her around the coffee table for awhile (caught her). Then crashed. Sunday....wifes grandkids came over. Now I have little finger marks all over the sliding glass doors and crumbs all over the floor. Stressed out the wife so bad she went to sleep at 6PM! Stayed up for a few more hours and had some quiet time listening to music before hitting the rack. I sure am boring compared to you young fellers. I do however get to go to Miami Beach for three days on business this week. That will be fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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synergy1

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Friday: drove to a random house party outside of town. It seemed like a mix of some students and locals, but certainly no girls worth hitting on.

Saturday: Went to go watch NCAA hockey championship game at a bar by myself since no one here follows it, and no one wanted to chill. It was the first time ever going to a bar by myself and ordering drinks. Normally its me and my mates watching the games getting rowdy, but not this year. My house mates and their friends chilled at home and smoked instead ; not really my thing.

All in all pretty bland. its becoming the same story here so far. Everyone here smokes, hangs out with their dogs, is uber religious and wants to have kids/ be married before 30. makes me a misfit here for sure...
 

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Friday night - stood home work early sat morning.

Saturday night - went clubbing with my brother and one of my plates ( plate#1 ) to be exact. She was touchy in the club and after resisting decided to come home with me. I banged her evethough she was on her period. At 10am she took a cab home and I spent all day sunday laying in bed.
 

amoka

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Friday: Don't quite remember what I did. It must not be interesting.

Saturday: Hit the club with some friends. Got couple of numbers, maybe 4, but just don't remember which girl is which. I ended up texting one of them for a 4:30am breakfast which she brought along with her three friends. Apparently she is visiting from Chicago so her friends did not want to leave her with me. Oh well. The other three, I don't even remember their names but I know there number is in the phone. I should start adding little "note" to all "NewMeets". eg. Sarah, Note: "works at a bank. Met @ the Club C"

Sunday: Went to a BBQ @ 2 pm at a park. Nothing spectacular. Come back around 5pm to prepare for the week.
 

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Friday- Went to see my buddy's band play in Somerville. Good show, mellow crowd. Talked to some cute post-college girls; one was sooo into me but I wasnt feeling it. 6-ish. Let my buddy close on the other, cuter girl. Cabbed it home and got stoned out of our minds, haha.

Saturday- Got up sluggishly for a morning lift with my buddy. Good numbers, productive day. Came back and chilled most of the afternoon. GF came over later, went out for a disappointing mexican dinner and she pouted for an hour over a comment I made. Awesome. Uneventful night except for good sex.

Sunday- Loafed around most of the day, fantastic banging. Also more protracted fighting and pouting. Not awesome. Went out for dinner again. This weekend really cemented for me that the two of us mix like oil and water. The sex is really the glue that holds us together. I can admit it now. Moving out of state in 3 weeks so that will likely be it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desdinova

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Friday: Went out to the bar. There's a couple of women who work there: A bartender who seems to have a somewhat high IL, but she looks like she's in her mid-30s. No thank you. There's also an okay looking woman who works the sound system there, and I've been debating if I want to get her number or not. I generally try to avoid women who entertain or serve, especially in places I enjoy going.

Saturday: Went on a coffee date with the 23 year old I number closed the weekend before. Teased her about showing up late, and we were throwing our straw wrappers at each other. However, she seems to have the potential to be a bad flake. She paid for our drinks but hasn't contacted me since.

I fvcking hate coffee dates. They seem to be that necessary stepping-stone after getting a number from a first meet, just to build a bit of rapport and IL. My game also needs a bit of polishing. I'm not nearly as sharp as I was 7 years ago (remember, I just got out of a marriage). This will come with time though. I can't expect to be a dating superman after being out of practice for such a long time.

Sunday: Did stuff around the house and chatted with my 9-year ex through facebook. Not sure what to think about the potential of having her back in my life. She might be useful to help polish up my game.
 

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friday- worked like normal. stayed up late watching tv

saturday- celebrated my birthday(drinks, food, the norm.) the cake was a chargers football stadium :rockon:

sunday- listened to music while i cleaned the house and prepared for the week.
 

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friday : been working all night long
saturday : same as friday
sunday : slept with my girl. a chilling out day as we like. worked again at night

what a life...:)
 

speed dawg

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Friday, hit some golf balls then walked down to the bar and drank a pitcher

Saturday, fished in the morning, did some yard work, watched the Masters, drank a bunch of gin and grilled some expensive steaks that had no flavor

Sunday, went to church, grilled some ribs and watched Phil win the Masters
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Amazing

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Friday- went out, was in the area where one chick I want to hook up with lives, I called her thursday but she didnt reply, so against better judgement and fueled by a bit of booze I texted her " Downtown is fun, bring a stick!" was going for "so you can beat all these girls off" she replied right away, we met up with her and her friend.. danced had fun, went to the bar and they got drinks, all of a sudden she pulls "hey don't let her (another friend) pay for these" I was thinking "trap or test?" she did seem to dig me so I paid. Don't want her to get used to it though, $40 down the drain. Made out with her teased her, didnt go back to her place, didn't push for it.

went out saturday, didn't like it that much but met some good wingmen, texted chick from firday as followup, can sense her status rising so will give her room, or may be should close it out? I told her to come out and she said she is out in another part of town. told her she will move up the list if she comes to get me, she replied "haha you know im #1" .. so dont call for a bit?

was playing it rough with this russian broad, they always think they are special. so i treat her like **** and she calls me, says hey come pick us up we are drunk at the club

i pull up in a friends car with 4 dudes (2 we had to give a ride to we just met) and I guess it scared them off cause they started walking to a pizza joint nearby. I was like either she doesnt like this nissan centra or 4 dudes, either case **** them i have to be up in the morning.
 

DMSR76

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Friday: I crashed a birthday party for a friend of a friend at a local karaoke bar. Hung out for about an hour an a half, then headed to the westside of town for an pre-wedding party in honor of a friend of mine. The party didn't get going till about 1:30 am!

Saturday: Attended an alumni association meeting in the morning, then attended the aforementioned wedding that afternoon. It was a traditional African ceremony, so the reception was looooooong. My date and I tipped out at the 3 hour mark. We went back to my place and ended the night very well.

Sunday: Went for a jog that morning and tied-up a few loose ends around the house. Ended up hosting an acquaintance and his G/F that evening, as they had an airline issue that left them stranded in Texas an extra night.


All-in-all, not a bad weekend.
 
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