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Tiger Woods, Jesse James, and media bias

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Ever notice how the media is blasting these guys for being ladies men? The media hates men who are players.

Now, I'm not saying it's ok to cheat on your wife, and IMO these guys are dumb to even get married. But still, the bias of the media is clear.

For example, the media makes it seem like the women didn't know these guys were married, were just innocent victims who were used. Please. They OBVIOUSLY knew they were married, and didn't care. They wanted to bang a celeb, and probably were hoping they could steal them from their wives.

And when is the last time the media gave this much attention to cheating celebrity women? I can't recall...
 
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And when is the last time the media gave this much attention to cheating celebrity women? I can't recall...

Duhh, celebrity women are wonderful people who never cheat, that's why you never see it reported!!

all women are angels and men are scum, did you miss that piece of media propaganda?

Men are tools, women are beautiful princesses.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6gq96ejmexU

(take a listen to what the host says at the 12 second mark of the clip)



Men are douchebags, women are innocent victims who fall prey to douchebags.

Elin, Tiger Woods's wife is a PERFECT woman, how dare he cheat on her!!! She is so damn PERFECT, that the idea that she was being a bad wife and not pleasing her man dareth not ariseth in media discussion.

Welcome to American :)
 

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Duhh, celebrity women are wonderful people who never cheat, that's why you never see it reported!!

all women are angels and men are scum, did you miss that piece of media propaganda?

Men are tools, women are beautiful princesses.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6gq96ejmexU

(take a listen to what the host says at the 12 second mark of the clip)



Men are douchebags, women are innocent victims who fall prey to douchebags.

Elin, Tiger Woods's wife is a PERFECT woman, how dare he cheat on her!!! She is so damn PERFECT, that the idea that she was being a bad wife and not pleasing her man dareth not ariseth in media discussion.

Welcome to American :)
I agree dude. We don't know the circumstances here. Maybe the wives had shut off the pvssy tap and these guys are doubtless ALWAYS being approached by hot women.

The media even let it slip that the 'mistrisses' were emailing and txting naked photos of themselves to these guys... i.e. they were the ones being aggressive.

But the overall tone is exactly what you describe... evil male seduces and breaks the heart of multiple women including his wife.
 

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"the media" is an revenue driven, advertising based business. To put tiger and jesse in a positive light could potentially cost them tons of revenue. Women have plenty of purchasing power these days. Those that act accordingly stand to make quite a bit of money.

The "Media" doesn't report information based on the "truth" or the "quality" or any nonsense they'd like you to believe. They report the information that will make them the most money.

The media is biased against alpha males just like Mcdonalds is biased against a healthy diet. If you are on a diet and are trying to get in shape, do you get angry at Mcdonalds for having endless commercials on TV? Or do you just change the channel?

Like they said in the Godfather, "It's not personal, it's just business."
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
"the media" is an revenue driven, advertising based business. To put tiger and jesse in a positive light could potentially cost them tons of revenue. Women have plenty of purchasing power these days. Those that act accordingly stand to make quite a bit of money.

The "Media" doesn't report information based on the "truth" or the "quality" or any nonsense they'd like you to believe. They report the information that will make them the most money.

The media is biased against alpha males just like Mcdonalds is biased against a healthy diet. If you are on a diet and are trying to get in shape, do you get angry at Mcdonalds for having endless commercials on TV? Or do you just change the channel?

Like they said in the Godfather, "It's not personal, it's just business."
That's an interesting theory, but men don't have purchasing power? Offending men is good for business?
 

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I have seen no instance of the media portraying these women as victims. Most reporting I have read has shown these women in a less-than-flattering light. They were predominantly porn stars and "escorts." It's not as though Tiger and Jesse were going around seducing housewives. It's obvious that Tiger and Jesse showed no concern for their wives while all this was going on. In addition it's easier for women to get away with cheating than men. They're better liars and better at hiding things.
 

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I have seen no instance of the media portraying these women as victims. Most reporting I have read has shown these women in a less-than-flattering light. They were predominantly porn stars and "escorts." It's not as though Tiger and Jesse were going around seducing housewives. It's obvious that Tiger and Jesse showed no concern for their wives while all this was going on. In addition it's easier for women to get away with cheating than men. They're better liars and better at hiding things.
I read the tabloids when I'm in line at the grocery store. I have seen mentioned several times that this mistress or another was devastated because she thought Tiger or Jesse wasn't married or was leaving the wife for them, etc.

But never once have I seen or heard it even suggested that these women shouldn't have been sleeping with a married man. And that includes those TV programs where they interview relationship experts and the like.

Look more carefully, the message is subtle but clear: men bad, women good.
 

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I read the tabloids when I'm in line at the grocery store. I have seen mentioned several times that this mistress or another was devastated because she thought Tiger or Jesse wasn't married or was leaving the wife for them, etc.

But never once have I seen or heard it even suggested that these women shouldn't have been sleeping with a married man. And that includes those TV programs where they interview relationship experts and the like.

Look more carefully, the message is subtle but clear: men bad, women good.
You have a point, and I get more of my celebrity news from blog sites such as idontlikeyouinthatway.com. The writer of that site basically destroys all of Tiger's mistresses. In Tiger's situation I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that he was the black athlete with whom white people could identify. He didn't come off as a thug such as Ray Lewis, Ron Artest, etc. People viewed him as a moral, clean-cut, upstanding individual. When it comes out that he's not so innocent, people are disappointed.
 

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SoCalMike said:
That's an interesting theory, but men don't have purchasing power? Offending men is good for business?
Men don't have the purchasing power women do, because it seems in most households women control the finances, or at least can veto anything the husband wants to get. Plus, all the beta males will be agreeing with the sentiment, and most alpha's won't care enough to boycott something.
 

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This double-standard is pretty much a dead horse. Forget who linked it but this quote:

"Marriage is an important part of getting ahead. Lets people know you're not a homo. Married guy seems more stable. People see the ring, they think at least somebody can stand the son of a b-itch. Ladies see the ring, they know immediately you must have some cash or your c-ock must work."
...kinda stuck by me. I've heard advice as well that past a certain age, it's better to be divorced than single just so women don't think you're a commitment phobe.

So what's the most socially acceptable way to choose being single? If you're in a somewhat public position this stuff actually does matter...
 

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SoCalMike said:
Ever notice how the media is blasting these guys for being ladies men? The media hates men who are players.
Nobody hates players & ladies men. (Well, the FemNazis, but they hate every male) Women chase them & men want to be them. Players are fun which is why the media writes about them. What they, and everyone else, has issues with is the cheating.

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IMO these guys are dumb to even get married.
You are absolutely right. I remember I was stunned when Sandra Bullock married Jesse James in the first place! I thought "What is that crazy b!tch smoking?" But she had that fairy tale in her head about taming him...and look where it got her.

If you can't do the "forsaking all others" and the "love, honor & cherish" thing, then don't promise to! Don't get married! Play to your heart's content!

Women are idiots for merrying these guys!
 

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Women are idiots for merrying these guys!
A woman is an idiot for marrying multi-millionairre Tiger woods? I beg to differ. She hit a gold mine. "Half" (of what he's worth) is a pretty awesome insurance policy provided she wants to exercise it.
 

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wait_out said:
This double-standard is pretty much a dead horse. Forget who linked it but this quote:



...kinda stuck by me. I've heard advice as well that past a certain age, it's better to be divorced than single just so women don't think you're a commitment phobe.

So what's the most socially acceptable way to choose being single? If you're in a somewhat public position this stuff actually does matter...
That was Alec Baldwin's quote from The Departed. Good movie!

Tiger Woods had a spotless reputation, but Jesse James had two failed marriages (including one to a drug addicted porn star), kids from both marriages, fvcked a bunch of biker sluts all his life and by his own admission didn't ever have a relationship preceded by a courtship.

Did Sandra Bullock really think this guy was good marriage material? Did she honestly believe he was a good match for her? She married this guy because he was a "bad boy" and that made her 'gina tickle. If a guy married some skank and got cheated on, most of us would say "well you should have known you can't turn a wh0re into a housewife."

There are plenty of bad girls who are absolute sex bombs and great fun to have a fling with, but I'd never marry them. Sandra Bullock should have carefully analyzed whether it was a good decision to marry Jesse James. Instead, she chose to think with her 'gina and she got burned. It happens to a lot of people.
 

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A woman is an idiot for marrying multi-millionairre Tiger woods? I beg to differ. She hit a gold mine. "Half" (of what he's worth) is a pretty awesome insurance policy provided she wants to exercise it.
He did sign a pre-nup. But she still walks away with tens of millions if they divorce, so I guess it's still a pretty sweet deal. Actually, I think it was in the contract that she gets increasing amounts depending on how long the marriage lasts!
 

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Back to the OP. If these idiots wanted other women after they got married, the should have got a divorce AND THE DONE IT. Not when they were married. Secondly, I can't help but wonder how many of these married female celebs cheat? You don't hear about them, and it's always been my opinion that women cheat more than men do. Again, that's just my opinion.
 

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I can't help but wonder how many of these married female celebs cheat? You don't hear about them, and it's always been my opinion that women cheat more than men do.
DING DING DING! We have a WINNER! Women are better cheaters than men, anyone who has spent some time with them know this. They don't get caught. And when they do, nobody blames them, they blame the man.
 

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DING DING DING! We have a WINNER! Women are better cheaters than men, anyone who has spent some time with them know this. They don't get caught. And when they do, nobody blames them, they blame the man.
Yeah, that was basically my point, you stated it better.

I just don't see the reason, other than bias (or perhaps financial as others theorize) that the media should focus non-stop on these guys. It seems to me a form of male bashing, because they're spending so much time on it.
 

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Yeah, that was basically my point, you stated it better.

I just don't see the reason, other than bias (or perhaps financial as others theorize) that the media should focus non-stop on these guys. It seems to me a form of male bashing, because they're spending so much time on it.
It's part of the political climate of our time. Feminism was originally about achieving equality for women. Sure enough, they did have some legitimate grievances. Now though, all of those problems have been resolved and women are equal to men. But the feminist movement continues and is now using the momentum from its original struggle to push for special privileges. Political correctness permeates TV.

I grew up in the 90s. As a child, I'd watch family sitcoms like Home Improvement, Everybody Loves Raymond, Family Matters etc. Tim Taylor, Ray Barone, Carl Winslow and all the other dads from these shows are portrayed as bumbling idiots who always screw up. The wife is never wrong. Just about every episode ends with the husband having to apologize for being a dumbass.

In all of these shows, the husband is frequently put down by the wife with remarks about his intelligence, how fat he is, how clumsy he is etc. She always has a bunch of wisecracks to make that the husband has no answer for. Anytime they get into an argument, the man loses. The husband is always terrified about his wife's wrath too. You never see the tables reversed.

This is in sharp contrast to older TV shows. In older shows, it was always "daddy knows best." Dad was the undisputed leader of the household, while the wife was always very supportive and loving. I'm always struck by how the portrayal of the typical American family has changed over the years. It reflects the political climates of the times those shows were made.
 
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