Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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We've created systems, behavior models, how to succeed, gain the upper hand...yet, the bottom line to it all is this.
Both men and women, want something from each other.
Whenever you want something, or need something, from another person...that person really does the choosing, the leading. Whether you realize it or not.
If you approach an attractive women, and run 'game', you really are nothing more than an act, you play a part, and the rewards (you hope) is either female praise, or to get into her pants. Respect from your peers perhaps.
What if you just let it all go? Forgot, game, and just let things naturally progress?
This is my whole approach on life. Just complete freedom from everything. I don't want or need anything, from anybody. I enjoy the time spent with people, and the fact that each one of us is different, unique.
The biggest thing, is this allows a natural progression to happen. It allows true attraction to shine. Yes, you can generate attraction, but true attraction, at our core natural level, in itself is not a choice. It's not a bargaining tool.
When you accept others, for who they are, without wanting anything from them. You open the door for that to happen. You unleash the beast. When you have it for a woman, and she has it with you, it's not about wants and needs anymore, it's about sharing something powerful that should just be natural.
Will you get 'friend zoned' by doing this? Possibly, you'll pass up on opportunities, but in time you'll realize that those lost opportunities, were not opportunities, but more of a waste of time you could have spent on other goals, other people, other women. IE, the sex is never worth the effort you gave up to get it from these opportunities.
However, when two people find that natural animal attraction, it will happen, and it is a powerful thing. It just can not be contained. No amount of game can create it either.
So, I say let nature take it's course. Allow others to be a part of your life without wanting anything from them. Enjoy spending time with as many women as you like, but allow the attraction to naturally happen, as it should, and will with a woman that has that attraction for you.
Lead naturally, as nature intended.
Don't play games with other people, don't stoop to the level that many men have become, and don't give up the power of choice by jumping through hoops trying to impress others...and don't allow others, to do so for you.
Enjoying life as a free man who doesn't need anything from anyone, life just doesn't get any better than that.
The freedom of acceptance, of others, allows them to be free too. It's contagious.
Both men and women, want something from each other.
Whenever you want something, or need something, from another person...that person really does the choosing, the leading. Whether you realize it or not.
If you approach an attractive women, and run 'game', you really are nothing more than an act, you play a part, and the rewards (you hope) is either female praise, or to get into her pants. Respect from your peers perhaps.
What if you just let it all go? Forgot, game, and just let things naturally progress?
This is my whole approach on life. Just complete freedom from everything. I don't want or need anything, from anybody. I enjoy the time spent with people, and the fact that each one of us is different, unique.
The biggest thing, is this allows a natural progression to happen. It allows true attraction to shine. Yes, you can generate attraction, but true attraction, at our core natural level, in itself is not a choice. It's not a bargaining tool.
When you accept others, for who they are, without wanting anything from them. You open the door for that to happen. You unleash the beast. When you have it for a woman, and she has it with you, it's not about wants and needs anymore, it's about sharing something powerful that should just be natural.
Will you get 'friend zoned' by doing this? Possibly, you'll pass up on opportunities, but in time you'll realize that those lost opportunities, were not opportunities, but more of a waste of time you could have spent on other goals, other people, other women. IE, the sex is never worth the effort you gave up to get it from these opportunities.
However, when two people find that natural animal attraction, it will happen, and it is a powerful thing. It just can not be contained. No amount of game can create it either.
So, I say let nature take it's course. Allow others to be a part of your life without wanting anything from them. Enjoy spending time with as many women as you like, but allow the attraction to naturally happen, as it should, and will with a woman that has that attraction for you.
Lead naturally, as nature intended.
Don't play games with other people, don't stoop to the level that many men have become, and don't give up the power of choice by jumping through hoops trying to impress others...and don't allow others, to do so for you.
Enjoying life as a free man who doesn't need anything from anyone, life just doesn't get any better than that.
The freedom of acceptance, of others, allows them to be free too. It's contagious.
The really shltty thing about men haveing to take the lead all the time is that when something unforseen or bad happens guess who gets all the blame??? Men have been useing woman for sex and woman have been using men for money and security and protection for years dont see this going away anytime soon.People just dont want to admit this fact of life for what it is??