Feels like ive been posting like crazy on the forum since ive become single, but hey, i need to keep you guys entertained. not to mention helping me out is hopefully keeping your game sharp.

One of these girls that ive been dating asked me a while ago if i was dating anyother girls. I should have said something like none of your business, but i told her no. (i should have learned from my last mistake when i told the ex the same thing). we were in my car a while ago and she sees a girls hair clip on the passenger floor and asks about it. I told her that since i became single friends have been asking me to go out with their friends but im not "dating" them. since then obviously shes been acting different. more quiet and reserved. im thinkin she is thinking im a liar and that im either rebounding with her or im a player.

monday im suppose to go out to dinner with her and i wanted to see how she felt about me. i still have 3 other plates but this one was the best sexually. my question is how can i ask about how she feels about us, without lowering my value?

i know a lot of you are going to say i shouldnt think about a relationship right now, or i should not care how she feels, but id like to continue to go out with her and not see this fizzle out.

my question is how can i ask about how she feels about us, without lowering my value?

i know a lot of you are going to say i shouldnt think about a relationship right now, or i should not care how she feels, but id like to continue to go out with her and not see this fizzle out.

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Are you seriously going to ask her that? How AFC is that..... You don't need her, you are the PRIZE... Remember, women are ONLY ATTRACTED to men who they see as the prize.. memorize that, repeat it out loud....

If an "us" comes to develop, it will happen naturally... Every time you impose your willful AFC neediness, you ruin your chances that much further.... The time to have that talk, if it ever comes, will occur naturally and most likely when you have been dating for a while, been fvcking and been having TONS of fun... and even then you might decide to continue spinnig other plates...

You're not patient, so you're going to lose your edge.. imagine yourself like a blacksmith, patience at the forge wields a great weapon, don't shatter your progress by rushing into things... if you take the sword off the forge to ask it about "us", it will cool down and be unforgable after that... and thus never reach its full potential...

Romjuan said:

One of these girls that ive been dating asked me a while ago if i was dating anyother girls. I should have said something like none of your business, but i told her no.

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Game over.

Find somebody else.

BeyondCharm said:

You don't need her, you are the PRIZE...

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He's the prize? You obviously haven't read his other posts. He's the cannon fodder.


Cheers!

Spinning plate was right.
Either you are a liar to her or you are a liar to us.

Once you figure that out and why Taiyuu said what he said... THEN you can respond in this thread to us.