I am 25 year old. I am a good looking guy that knows how to dress well. I go to the gym 4-5 times a week. Also, i am almost done with college. I am very active with hobbies and always going out, and have a lot of friends. However, I am very bad with girls. I am the "NICE GUY" I am a big AFC 
I have dated a lot of girls, but i dated them because we had common friends and i would find out threw my friends that the girls was interested in me, so it made it easy for me to go up to her and to ask her out.
I had only 2 girlfriends in my life, and they both were because a friend told me that they liked me. My first girlfriend lasted 3 years, but we never had sex because she wanted to wait till she gets married. This was during high school. We broke up after 3 years. I later find out she has a 1 year old baby before being married and is now a single mom.
I lost my "V" at age 24 to my last girlfriend of only 7 months. this was like 4 months ago. My ex was everything to me. I let her walked all over me, and when she broke up with me, she told me that i had no confidences and was insecure, but she loved me more as a friend then a lover.
I was divested when she left. I am 6ft 195lb good looking and healthy with a lot of muscle before she broke up with me. I got to 173lb looking sick after she broke up with me. I was a mess and depress. I beg and cried for her back.
After that break up, i been reading online on what i did wrong and how to be a MAN. I was not a MAN. I learned so much this pass couple months that i wish i knew when i was in high school.
I am now learning how to approach girls that i like. I saw this girl that i did not really like, but she was cute and alone on her computer. This was my chance to approach a stranger and just ask for her number, and not care if she said no because i really did care what the out come was. I was so nervous to go up to her, but when i did it went like this.
me: Hey, i have to go to class, but give me your number so i can take you out sometimes.
her: (laughing and bushing) i have a boyfriend.
me: ooh ok. (walk away)
It felt so good to do that. that was the first time in my life i ever did that. This place has helped me a lot and learn all the things it takes to be a MAN. I will continue to approach girls with that line until i get my approach anxiety clear. Once it is clear I will start to do conversation and become a real DJ.
THANK YOU GUYS. MY LIFE WILL START NOW.
I have dated a lot of girls, but i dated them because we had common friends and i would find out threw my friends that the girls was interested in me, so it made it easy for me to go up to her and to ask her out.
I had only 2 girlfriends in my life, and they both were because a friend told me that they liked me. My first girlfriend lasted 3 years, but we never had sex because she wanted to wait till she gets married. This was during high school. We broke up after 3 years. I later find out she has a 1 year old baby before being married and is now a single mom.
I lost my "V" at age 24 to my last girlfriend of only 7 months. this was like 4 months ago. My ex was everything to me. I let her walked all over me, and when she broke up with me, she told me that i had no confidences and was insecure, but she loved me more as a friend then a lover.
I was divested when she left. I am 6ft 195lb good looking and healthy with a lot of muscle before she broke up with me. I got to 173lb looking sick after she broke up with me. I was a mess and depress. I beg and cried for her back.
After that break up, i been reading online on what i did wrong and how to be a MAN. I was not a MAN. I learned so much this pass couple months that i wish i knew when i was in high school.
I am now learning how to approach girls that i like. I saw this girl that i did not really like, but she was cute and alone on her computer. This was my chance to approach a stranger and just ask for her number, and not care if she said no because i really did care what the out come was. I was so nervous to go up to her, but when i did it went like this.
me: Hey, i have to go to class, but give me your number so i can take you out sometimes.
her: (laughing and bushing) i have a boyfriend.
me: ooh ok. (walk away)
It felt so good to do that. that was the first time in my life i ever did that. This place has helped me a lot and learn all the things it takes to be a MAN. I will continue to approach girls with that line until i get my approach anxiety clear. Once it is clear I will start to do conversation and become a real DJ.
THANK YOU GUYS. MY LIFE WILL START NOW.
