Sorry guys, I've been busy.
I don't want to be a body builder with huge muscles everywhere. I just want to get rid of my "skinny look" (I consider myself now slim and toned).
Hmm you make it sound so easy to just get "huge muscles" Well buddy it's not, not at all.
I'm sorry this is so naive I have to stop you right here....Wtf does this really mean? It's like saying I'm fat but I don't really want to lose weight. You either want to put on a noticeable amount of muscle or you don't. IF you actually want to put on muscle you're going to have to train like a bodybuilder and a powerlifter regardless... I don't give a **** what anyone says. There's a few ways to put on muscle but why are you going to ignore the fact that BODYBUILDERS know how to do it BEST? Want to get size on your back, tris and hamstrings? Talk to a powerlifter. Want to get a balanced physique and learn a variety of exercises to add mass to your chest, arms, quads, back and hamstrings? Talk to a bodybuilder. You can learn from both but, saying oh I'll only take advice from this group or that group is just plain ****in' stupid if you ask me.
Back in the day bodybuilders and powerlifters trained in the same gyms utilizing all the same **** and there wasn't much discrepancies in how they trained, except that the powerlifters trained the squat, deadlift and bench press more and getting big numbers in those was their long term goal.
Bodybuilders main goals were size and symmetry/aestheticism, but threw in those exercises also here or there. Yet it's nothing new to see say Matt Kroc or another powerlifter throwing in some dedicated arm days, curls, machine work, or Dave Tate for instance who had many years full of injuries from powerlifting, switching to some machine work and just blowing up in more size (read their logs at elitefts.com ).
Yet people in here act as if this isn't true and you're not "Hardcore" if you utilize machines also, I got a 600 lb bench presser in my gym and I'll see him use the power rack, smith machine and leg press machine on any given day...... He's a powerlifter but at times he trains like guess what? a bodybuilder. So don't be naive, get in a gym and train around real powerlifters/bodybuilders.
The reason why I'm working out is to get stronger. I don't want to eat, eat, eat and not work out.
I'm having problems with my diet though. I work 40 hours a week and I'm often on the road going to different locations. I can't bring my lunch in because it's too incovenient to eat, so I eat out for lunch everyday.
Are there any meals I can make in bulk at the beginning of the week, that's rather simple to prepare and will pack on the pounds? I'm thinking something along the lines of "meat and potatoes". Is brown rice \and meat good?
I'm a complete amateur when it comes to diet and working out.
So my goal is gain 15lbs, increase strength with having a solid toned body.