me and my buddies are hanging out at a local coffee place and there it is about 4 of us so we occupy a table and my friends friend(girl) comes with her friends and sit at another table. By this time we were ready to leave so we leave except my friend stayed back to hang out with the chicks he invited and I told him one of them were cute. He said I will hook you up but I told him no I want to do it next time we hang out myself but he ignores me and gives her my number and she texts me and I was pissed so I didn't text her back, good move on my part?
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hmm did I handle this right
- Thread starter Err0r
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cuz we were going to see them again later this weekend so I told him I will just talk to her then no need to try to do anything to hook me up i just feel like its a ***** move maybe im wrong i dunno i haven't been in this situation so wasn't sure how to handle it
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Ummmm no point in sulking in your pride at that point. Now she's going to think you're weird for ignoring her text.
cedd
Don Juan
what was the text message about ?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Kailex
Master Don Juan
How is ignoring her a good move on your part?Err0r said:
Don't blame your friend for being willing to do what YOU weren't IN the moment. Why did you want to wait til NEXT time? Are you kidding me... he did YOU a favor and you are lucky she even texted you at all.
By now, I'm probably sure it's too late and she feels like:
1) You don't have the testicular fortitude to approach her right away
2) You won't even text a freebie back
Which means that right about now, she's probably:
1) Talking to someone else
2) Telling everyone she knows that you are probably gay
oh well just wanted to know what you guys would have done just wanted some feedback.
we were already leaving when they came so I am not going to stop my group of leaving to go and talk to them but my friend said they will be going out with us this weekend so I was like I will just talk to her then.
live n learn
we were already leaving when they came so I am not going to stop my group of leaving to go and talk to them but my friend said they will be going out with us this weekend so I was like I will just talk to her then.
live n learn
I think you could text back and just picked it up from the prev. conversation.
I think I know how you feel, the whole pride maybe and wanting to get the interaction and hook up going yourself.
Next time just take those freebies and play with them. $hit play with every female.
I think I know how you feel, the whole pride maybe and wanting to get the interaction and hook up going yourself.
Next time just take those freebies and play with them. $hit play with every female.
You idiot.
Text her now and say "sorry for late reply, was busy with blablabla" or something. Getting a bit of conversation / rapport going before seeing her again on the weekend will help, as you will be that bit more comfortable with each other right off the bat. Then you can actually make your move.
(Although I doubt you have the balls to make any sort of move)
Text her now and say "sorry for late reply, was busy with blablabla" or something. Getting a bit of conversation / rapport going before seeing her again on the weekend will help, as you will be that bit more comfortable with each other right off the bat. Then you can actually make your move.
(Although I doubt you have the balls to make any sort of move)
