Attracted To A Married Woman

[Powerlifter]

I decided to copy and paste my post and bring it here to get some feedback since I wasn't getting any response.

Will appreciate any replies you have and or experiences.

Thanks

I have recently met a physcial therapy at the nursing home where my mother is staying. She is married with 2 boys and a girl and very attractive sorta looks like Jennifer Aniston just a sexy looking lady.

When we were introduced by the admissions officer of the nursing home she introduced her as one of the physcial therpist there and I comedically said at the time I feel I need physcial therapy. Before she left she smiled and said it was nice meeting me and I said the same.

I didn't realize this would be the same lady who would be giving my Mom physcial therpy and as time has gone on I took note that one time her husband called her while I was in the therpy room and she slammed the phone down in which one of her co-workers remarked wow! whats going on and another co-worker said she married thats what and then the one I like says no you just married the right one.

During this exchange I noticed her eye contact was strong at me and she even walked away and started messing with her hair putting it up exposing her neck after this she was talking and saying to her co-workers she will be 40 this summer and she won't be there working and she will be on a beach somewhere in a bikini.

Long story short this lady has given me strong eye contact plus the most wide and teeth showing beautiful smile I have ever experieced with a woman. I also noticed one time she pulled her car up next to my truck as when I parked it she was in the parking space up front to the left of me and when I came out it was next to mine driver side facing mine at the time I didn't know this was her car until later and I was sensing a hint of something she was trying to say without saying it.

Off and on now for 6 weeks now her smile is always warm and feel there is something there but I stop myself because she is married. I also asked the admissions officer about her and she said she was happyly married but the signs this lady gives says she is ready for adventure and I am willing to give it but really don't know how to get started.

She still wears her wedding band but I notice she use to wear two rings now it's only the one not sure what that means.

Any suggestions on where to go from here as my Mom will be going home in a couple weeks and won't be seeing her I am 50 in great shape single with no kids of my own and would really like to see where this can go also forgive my grammer and spelling.

So far I have not given her any compliments but have talked with her about Moms progress and have not really dug deeper in what makes her tick.

Thanks for any suggestions.

Powerlifter

[boomerick]

P-lifter----If she was just in a relationship or married with no kids thats one thing and still not a very good thing....BUT....she has kids who don't get to be involved in the relationship you two might have but who could potentially have to deal with a lifetime of consequences if it goes bad. I've read here all the arguments for and against the married woman deal (good karma vs. why not? someone else will!) but if you are as together as you say you are you really don't need to pull this chick and possibly f*ck up some innocent kids. Give her a pass. Or wait it out untill she divorces. Over and Out.

[zekko]

she has kids who don't get to be involved in the relationship you two might have but who could potentially have to deal with a lifetime of consequences if it goes bad. I've read here all the arguments for and against the married woman deal (good karma vs. why not? someone else will!) but if you are as together as you say you are you really don't need to pull this chick and possibly f*ck up some innocent kids.
That's a pretty good argument actually. Can't say I've ever heard it before, even though it should be obivous.

[sodbuster]

IF she divorces him first, go ahead. IF she wants to cheat on him[with 3 kids in the balance],she'll cheat on YOU[I've been the guy she cheated on you with-I've never chased a married woman,she was divorced and cheated on the BF that broke up the marriage- with me][she was NEVER considered as LTR material] IF she is all that unhappy,she needs to do the right thing.

[Amante Silvestre]

She still wears her wedding band but I notice she use to wear two rings now it's only the one not sure what that means.


It doesn't mean anything as far as you're concerned. Very few if any of the married women I've ever been with have taken their rings off simply to advertise availablility, even in cases where they're very unhappily married and filing for divorce.

That said, nothing you've written convinces me she's trying to communicate with you on the down low. It just sounds like she's friendly and the parking incident was coincidental. However, you'd certainly know better than any of us if her attraction for you shows non-verbally.

At any rate, the married women I've gotten involved with have usually taken the first, clear step over into the relm of cheating with me at some type of social event with one of her closest female friends in tow, believe it or not. When a woman is ready to have an affair, her best friend usually knows it and may even help with the planning (especially if this best friend dislikes the hubby).

You might want to start by finding a way to get involved in her social circle somehow.

[BobMo']

The same thing happened to me several times when my mother was in a nursing home. An occupational therapist used to regularly lean over and show me her tits, and another, very attractive nurse did the same thing and was very seductive. We both knew what they were up to, and it was just a fun thing. Women do it for fun.

I wasn't much in the mood, so my policy was to smile and thank them for their charming attention, and let it pass. A pleasant memory, and a boost to my confidence. Nice to know that I'm still attractive to younger HB's.

[amoka]

I hate to tell you this but it is time for you to get your own. Stop depending on the fruit that have already fallen under the tree and get your own from the tree. Just like someone already said, if she leaves her husband and kids for you, there is no reason to think she won't do the same to you with another man.

[( . )( . )]

if she leaves her husband and kids for you, there is no reason to think she won't do the same to you with another man.
No reason a woman who's not married wouldn't do the same thing.
I hate to tell you this but it is time for you to get your own. Stop depending on the fruit that have already fallen under the tree and get your own from the tree. A woman that signed a piece of paper for the government is hardly comparable to fallen fruit.

[jophil28]

The same thing happened to me several times when my mother was in a nursing home. An occupational therapist used to regularly lean over and show me her tits, and another, very attractive nurse did the same thing and was very seductive. We both knew what they were up to, and it was just a fun thing. Women do it for fun.


"Women do it for fun"...Indeed they do. It is called attention seeking.
As RT says," Attention is coin of the realm in girl world."

The diifficulty for us is making the distinction between a woman's natural inclination to merely flirt with a man who is showing her some attention, and a woman who is open to taking it further.
IN the first instance, it is impossible to differentiate.
In my experience about 98% of women, married or single will respond in kind to a flirt. That does NOT mean that they want to sleep with you.

[squirrels]

You ever go near closing time? Ask her if she wants to have a drink with you before she goes home. That's harmless enough, isn't it? :D After all, having a drink with someone isn't "cheating"...make it seem like, "I'm going to xxxx to have a beer...you feel like coming along? You say you're married? Oh, I'm not asking you to sleep with me, but that's OK, I understand."

Could be she's looking. But it may be the wrong circumstances. If you saw her out on "ladies night" on Friday night at the bars, then you could probably pick her up...there, in a professional setting, social conditioning is on high so she can't make that kind of image-decimating mistake.

Could also be, as some of the others pointed out, that she wants to see if she still CAN attract eligible young men before she considers a divorce. If she was unattractive, you don't respond, and she stays with her sh*tty husband out of fear of being unable to do better. But if you DO, maybe she'll get out and play the field.

I would NOT invest much effort in this girl or hope for a "relationship" of any kind beyond fugg-buddy. She has three kids. If she's down, then you might be able to tag it, but you open yourself up to drama if HE finds out.

If she's not easily down, then stop wasting your time and find a woman of your own. Or 2. Or 3.

Normally I fugg with married women only if they approach me first, and even then I won't at times. I had a woman come up to me in the club once and tell me I was "very attractive"...my friends were telling me to go with her, but she was still wearing her rock. I called her on it and she gave me the, "Oh we're separated, don't worry". Yeah, OK. :rolleyes: I don't need to be railing you and end up with some jealous hubby sticking a shotgun in my grille.

Then again, I've messed with women who have been "going through messy divorces", albeit far away from "home". That's some good lovin' right there. :D

[sodbuster]

A married woman who cheats has PROVEN she can't be trusted. The rest of them,we may or may not trust-they haven't proven their integrity[or lack of ]yet.

[Powerlifter]

Thanks men for the replies.

My ex sister in law met her now husband at her work a man my brother had met and actually felt a friend. My brother has 3 kids and one of the reasons for my sister in law having the affair was his drinking got out of hand my ex sister in law fell in love and finally divorce my brother which really hurt him but it was his wake up call to stop drinking.

Now 15 years later my nieces and nephew are successful and well rounded and at there young ages at the time wasn't affected by the affair or divorce it seemed to actually bring everyone closer together so my point is not all kids are damaged by affairs or divorce but I am sure many are.

Anyway, from reading the post I have decided to move on from this lady but dam guys she is so fine and that beautiful ass body and I mean a Jennifer Aniston type just a sexy babe. But that aside I just needed to hear it from others about this situation and really already knew my discision to not pursue this lady.

Maybe you have saved a brother from himself.

Peace

[( . )( . )]

A married woman who cheats has PROVEN she can't be trusted.
What a load of rubbish, do you realise your actually comparing yourself to the loser she "cheated" on by believing that crap. And do I even need to mention the branch swing analogy that women adhere to? "Trust" is subjective. I trust her to be a woman who's obviously unhappy in her marriage, who's taken the next progressive step.

[Powerlifter]

I forgot to mention my ex sister in law has not cheated on her new husband after all this time both are very happy together.

Something to think about and not every man who comes into an affair is a scum bag.

Powerlifter

[sodbuster]

So when she decides you are a loser[this is a woman we are talking about-ignore logic],she won't cheat on you like she did the first time? Even if the thought you are a loser only lasts a week,then goes away-a low integrity woman may have already may have broken her vows and your marriage. Unless you forgive her[NOT in any relationship of mine].
The fact that a woman will cheat on her first husband and not on her second is like the fact that several people have sailed solo around the world and made it. It may have happened,but it doesn't mean I want to try it.

[( . )( . )]

So when she decides you are a loser[this is a woman we are talking about-ignore logic],she won't cheat on you like she did the first time?
This argument only holds water if you are indeed a loser. You seem to have this delusion that just because a woman made some bullsh!t vows and signed a piece of paper she all of a sudden transforms into some sort of romantic notion of ownership that conforms with your moral ideals. And woe betide if she happens to grow tired of some random guy you know nothing about and decides to branch swing (like pretty much every other NORMAL woman that doesnt have the luxury of independance we men take for granted.) In your eyes she will automatically be labelled a dirty "cheater" that cant ever be trusted. :rolleyes:

Give me a break, your dreaming man seriously.

I wont even start with the social pressure on a woman to marry, and the sea of douche bags out there she has to pick from.

[AMDG]

the sea of douche bags out there she has to pick from.

Such a feminist viewpoint :nono:

[( . )( . )]

Such a feminist viewpoint :nono:Yeah your right what was I thinking, theres an abundance of real quality men out there. It's just like the 50's all over again.

Feminist lol, at least it's a change from misogynist.:crazy:

[jophil28]

A married woman who cheats has PROVEN she can't be trusted. The rest of them,we may or may not trust-they haven't proven their integrity[or lack of ]yet.

Agree with Sodbuster.

A married woman who cheats is certainly untrustworthy by her actions.
The argument that her cheating represents taking a "first step" in exiting from an unhappy marriage is nonsense. That POV is precisely the kind of justification that is frequently sprouted in those tedious mags for gullible chicks, and sometimes is the theme of those awful chick flicks. "She is lost in her miserable marriage and is simply seeking out a loving man."( of course her husband is always portrayed as the cold cruel tyrant and she, the victim. Remember "The Titanic" movie ?)

Cheating is always coincident with lying and deception.
She has other choices and options if she wishes to leave her husband .
A woman's unhappiness is not a free pass to find immediate gratification on another man's c0ck.

[sodbuster]

It seems some here want to make the excuses FOR the women-the same ones WOMEN use.ANYTHING to make the little angel look pure. It's not her fault I know all this DJ stuff and her husband is AFC.BS! In todays society she has the option of a divorce with no stigma.Then she can find another guy.

I feel with equal rights comes equal responsibliity. If I would disrespect a man for doing it-I disrespect the woman also. Signing that piece of paper is a legal contract. Women want it more than a man does[women want marriage to have a wage slave working for them] If a business partner of yours gives me business secrets from your company[that wrecks your company]-do I want him as MY partner? NO

[( . )( . )]

Again you seem to be clinging to this notion that marriage should all of a sudden transform a woman into somehow adopting a mans way of thinking of honour, loyalty and all that sh!t if she happens to marry some loser who dropped the ball, doesnt work like that anymore ( did it ever?), and people who still believe this are going to get hurt.

Anyway were only going around in circles here.

[Powerlifter]

I have notice the past couple days she is in a sense ignoring me and also seems to avoid me. She use to walk by my mothers room and give a big smile everytime I was in there. I believe the reason is the last time I was in the therpy room she was talking with her co worker and was talking about her job and then made mention of her husband after awhile when she didn't make any eye contact or address me being there right next to her I just got up and walked out and didn't return and went and waited in my mothers room and I guess you could say I was being anal. She then came walking by the room a couple times trying to get my attention by talking louder and I could see at the corner of my eye she was looking in but I just ignored her and kept watching the TV.

I then stayed away or made other times to go see my mother and didn't see her for over a week until yesterday I came in and was in the hallway when another co worker came out and says to her your husband called and said he is waiting when I made or tried to make eye contact with her while she was walking with a patient she looked down and walked into the rehab room.

I miss her smile and I can't believe I am this taken by this lady who just happened to be married it's hard to just walk away but from the feel of things I have no other choice.

Through it all I never gave her a compliment but was waiting for opportunities to make mention that I really digged her smile whenever she looked at me unlike she would give anyone else it was something I felt on a deeper level that she was digging me but couldn't understand why I wasn't making a move on her or at least giving a compliment but I always smiled and always spoke to her whenever I would see her.

Anyway, just venting and giving a update but something tells me if I would have taken it further I would have had her but looked like I shut her switch off by being to aloof.

[Powerlifter]

Double post.

[Powerlifter]

Double post

[Drum&Bass]

I dunno dude, you kinda remind me of a chick or a high school geek that has a crush. Good for you that you didnt hook up with a married woman....but how do you not have the social skills to keep constant contact with her if your so into her ???

I dont understand why your making things so complicated ??? (or why you keep talking about how warm her smile is and her attractiveness)

If you liked this woman so much why weren't you able to be cool with her and enjoy her company. You do realize your not obligated to sleep with her if you choose not to...

and WHAT THE HELL IS THE DEAL WITH YOUR CHEESY A$$ GAME PLAYING ??!??? ignoring her on purpose and over analyzing little things she does..spare me bro..In reality I think this chick realized what a wimp you really are and your probably no better than her husband. She's probably feeling embarrassed that she ever went for you, but women hate being ignored especially by pansy's. In her eyes you are well beneath her level and she's probably thinking who does this loser think he is by ignoring me.

....the only thing cool about you is your screen name.

[Powerlifter]

Actually I am going to agree with you DB I need an old fashion ass kicking on top of that and realize my mistake...I really don't understand myself with this behavior especially at my age by ignoring her was properly due to the fact I wanted to avoid the nice guy trap play a bit hard to get and avoid the friends zone.

As far as finding the time to speak to her I kept distance in the fact the lady was working and I didn't want to impose my romantic interest especially while my Mom is still gravely ill and didn't feel it would have been appropiate and didn't really know how to ask a married woman out if in fact her flirting was with intent.

Crazy I know.

[zekko]

If you liked this woman so much why weren't you able to be cool with her and enjoy her company
That's not really what they teach you around here though, is it?
They want you to GAME her, not be too available, not be thinking about her too much, be indifferent, etc.

Here's a good case where it didn't work. Even if she didn't want an affair she was apparently enjoying the flirt with Powerlifter. Then he withdrew his interest, so she withdrew hers. Apparently a more upfront and friendly approach was called for.

[Powerlifter]

True Zekko another way to look at it now I don't feel so punished.

Thanks

[jophil28]

Here's a good case where it didn't work. Even if she didn't want an affair she was apparently enjoying the flirt with Powerlifter. Then he withdrew his interest, so she withdrew hers.


Good point Zekko.

Women often respond to flirting by men in ways that resemble feminine romantic interest. Women love male attention as much (or more than ) they love chocolate, or Prado.

And there is the stumbling block. Just because a woman ( married or not ) returns a man's flirt does NOT mean that she wants it to progress into a date. Women are natural flirts , they learn how to quickly and easily command a man's attention at an early age, and they do it skillfully.

The only way to seperate out the women who are just attention seeking from those who are open to dating you, is to ask for her number.

[Powerlifter]

I dunno dude, you kinda remind me of a chick or a high school geek that has a crush. Good for you that you didnt hook up with a married woman....but how do you not have the social skills to keep constant contact with her if your so into her ???

I dont understand why your making things so complicated ??? (or why you keep talking about how warm her smile is and her attractiveness)

If you liked this woman so much why weren't you able to be cool with her and enjoy her company. You do realize your not obligated to sleep with her if you choose not to...

and WHAT THE HELL IS THE DEAL WITH YOUR CHEESY A$$ GAME PLAYING ??!??? ignoring her on purpose and over analyzing little things she does..spare me bro..In reality I think this chick realized what a wimp you really are and your probably no better than her husband. She's probably feeling embarrassed that she ever went for you, but women hate being ignored especially by pansy's. In her eyes you are well beneath her level and she's probably thinking who does this loser think he is by ignoring me.

....the only thing cool about you is your screen name.


After I reread your response I realize your response is only a response to lift your ego. Calling a brother a wimp and pansy when he comes here for insight and information during a tough time isn't the right atittude to have. It would be better served to point out the mistakes and then let it be at that. I am far from a pansy and a wimp bro...and have a very successful dating life but was trying to come to terms as to why I was having such a time with this lady who happens to be married and who helps my ill mother with her therepy.

My suggestion to you would be get off your high horse and be more considerate toward another brother when he comes here for help with the opposite sex and you just might get more reps in the process.

Powerlifter

[Drum&Bass]

ok, fair enough, was my assessment of the situation incorrect ?? Its easy for guys to get down for a long period of time over attractive women who show interest in us and then take it away. I've been down that road before, a majority of us have been down that road before...

Its 1 girl out of many. You didnt even develop a true relationship with her. If your dating life is so successful call up a friend go out somewhere and find a nice set of t!ts and thighs to take your mind off the previous girl thats got you down.

Its only 1 woman..out of MANY MANY WOMEN...take this as a learning experience and become better or take it as a reminder and find another woman that gives you the same feelings who has less issues to deal with.

You have to train yourself to get hurt minimally, because in the grand scheme of YOUR life what have you truly lost by not keeping in contact with this woman ?? Do you honestly believe you wont find another woman just as good if not better in this great big world ???

Im sure your a nice guy, but you need to harden up.

and I actually like riding on my high horse, it gives me hindsight and confidence. the next post you make better be about some OTHER woman you met. keep playing the game till you get a winning hand.
:rock:

[zekko]

And there is the stumbling block. Just because a woman ( married or not ) returns a man's flirt does NOT mean that she wants it to progress into a date. Women are natural flirts , they learn how to quickly and easily command a man's attention at an early age, and they do it skillfully.
And that's why so many men are so confused as to when a woman is seriously interested in them. It is so common for women to casually flirt that you never know if they mean it or not. I've been very guilty of this in the past. I know I've missed out on several windows of opportunities with girls because I thought they were just being flirty. Then I find out later they were attracted to me. D'oh!

[Falcon25]

I am in love with a married woman I slept with last year. If there is one thing I can say to you, if there is one advice I can give you. Do not go this path. If you ever consider sleeping with a married woman, it has to be one and done and you never see her again. It is the worst situation that a man can put himself in with women. You cannot have her, you cannot hold her, sleep with her, she made her vows to another man. She will also cheat on you, if she cheats on him. Nothing good comes of it. Stop wasting time. I waisted 12 months worrying and waiting and wondering what could it have been with a woman that was never going to be mine. Save your effort and energy for a lady that can return the favor, a single lady.

[( . )( . )]

I am in love with a married woman I slept with last year. If there is one thing I can say to you, if there is one advice I can give you. Do not go this path. If you ever consider sleeping with a married woman, it has to be one and done and you never see her again. It is the worst situation that a man can put himself in with women. You cannot have her, you cannot hold her, sleep with her, she made her vows to another man. She will also cheat on you, if she cheats on him. Nothing good comes of it. Stop wasting time. I waisted 12 months worrying and waiting and wondering what could it have been with a woman that was never going to be mine. Save your effort and energy for a lady that can return the favor, a single lady.
This could not be further from the truth. Pretty much everything you said I disagree with. Married women are great, more fool you for waiting and being in "love" and dont even get me started on the ridiculous "she will cheat because she cheated on him" bullsh!t again. Also I honestly love the idea she goes home to her husband after we've had our fun. It is the perfect setup. The only downside is public places are a no go, and wondering if she's smart enough to cover all her tracks.

[zekko]

dont even get me started on the ridiculous "she will cheat because she cheated on him" bullsh!t again. Also I honestly love the idea she goes home to her husband after we've had our fun. It is the perfect setup.
This may not be what you meant, but I agree that "she will cheat because she cheated on him" is not necessarily true. In most cases it is, but there are some exceptions. In some cases, the girl is just hooked up with a poor match and is wanting out.

Clearly everybody here has their own unique set of goals. You have the guys who are only interested in sex, period, and nothing else. Then there are the guys looking to find that "special someone". And everything in between. What you are looking for affects what sort of approach you should take.

[Falcon25]

This could not be further from the truth. Pretty much everything you said I disagree with. Married women are great, more fool you for waiting and being in "love" and dont even get me started on the ridiculous "she will cheat because she cheated on him" bullsh!t again. Also I honestly love the idea she goes home to her husband after we've had our fun. It is the perfect setup. The only downside is public places are a no go, and wondering if she's smart enough to cover all her tracks.


I have slept with seven married women. It is something I will never do again. If this is the path you choose, then so be it. But the road is dirty and it could get you heartbroken, killed, or even worse, your future wife could do the same to you. You say you love the idea she goes to her husband after you are with her, you have a long way to go on being a man of integrity and character. I learned the hard way, the seventh one showed me that what I was doing was wrong. It is a disgusting and horrible way to live. To sleep with another man's wife is nothing to be proud of. I'm sorry you feel this way. You will realize one day that this is wrong.

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But the road is dirty and it could get you heartbroken, killed, or even worse, your future wife could do the same to you. My fictitious future wife "cheating" on me is worse than being killed?:confused:
You say you love the idea she goes to her husband after you are with her, you have a long way to go on being a man of integrity and character.I got integrity and character coming out of my ass, your ideas of moral character are just different to mine.
the seventh one showed me that what I was doing was wrong. Phuck off, you fell in "love" with the 7th one, you waited for her, realised she would never be yours and from what you posted sounds like she also cheated on you. So basically you let your heart get ripped out, now all of a sudden you decide your "cured" and decide in your opinion that it's morally wrong... Yeah right, get the hell outta here.
To sleep with another man's wife is nothing to be proud of.
No your right, thats the first thing I agree with. But I'm not ashamed either.

[Danger]

An interesting discussion here.

I have a married woman that is trying to hook up with me. She has been trying to isolate me for weeks now and it may happen very soon.

Question for ya tits (although a bit off topic from the wife discussion),

What makes you think a woman that cheated on her first man with you, would not cheat on you?

[Amante Silvestre]

I think it's funny so many guys would say "Don't do it !! She'll cheat on you too!".

A married woman who cheats isn't there for another man to have. She's there for another man to enjoy while she tries to regain the bearings on her marriage and her life. Sometimes amends are made and the marriage carries on with new vigor and life. Sometimes these women end up divorced after all is said and done. And even in these cases it's no sure thing you'll be the man she ultimately ends up with.

The idea that some of you guys will come in here and say a woman like that will eventually cheat on you as well is getting way, way ahead of the picture.

Most men don't even make it that far.

[Powerlifter]

I wonder if I can salvage the connection with this lady by starting up flirting or some other way to let her know I am interested in getting to know her better unless I've totally blown it.

Tittyman your post make alot of sense and I agree not every woman who has an affair is going to do the same with you.

[grayclif]

PL - You started this post a week ago and your still thinking bout this woman. Forget about her yo! It's just not worth it. Sneaking around, jealousy and abnormal dating practices all will make for a very awkward situation.

Just move on man. Get your own.

[jophil28]

Tittyman your post make alot of sense and I agree not every woman who has an affair is going to do the same with you.

Who would take that risk.

A woman who cheats on her husband has demonstrated her willingness to betray him for her own gratification. Her "reasons" are irrelevant. Her actions speak loudly all by themselves.

I am not proud about admitting to screwing two married women .
Because they were married women at the time I never considered either as fit for a "relationship" with me.

There are much better and nore worthy candidates.

[( . )( . )]

I think it's funny so many guys would say "Don't do it !! She'll cheat on you too!".

A married woman who cheats isn't there for another man to have. She's there for another man to enjoy while she tries to regain the bearings on her marriage and her life.
Hallelujah !

Question for ya tits (although a bit off topic from the wife discussion),

What makes you think a woman that cheated on her first man with you, would not cheat on you?I never said if I drop the ball and she finds a shinier alternative she wouldn't (I'd hope she would in all honesty, but thats for another topic)

What I'm saying and this is the part alot of you guys seem to not understand is that it's pretty much common knowledge women dont like to let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another, would you agree with that?
Now having established that, it does not make any logical sense that just because the woman signed a marriage certificate it makes her more prone to cheat than a woman who isnt, yet both naturally do the exact same thing when looking for a new man to upgrade the old one.

Wtf am I alone on this? I thought all this is common sense.

[Falcon25]

Hallelujah !

I never said if I drop the ball and she finds a shinier alternative she wouldn't (I'd hope she would in all honesty, but thats for another topic)

What I'm saying and this is the part alot of you guys seem to not understand is that it's pretty much common knowledge women dont like to let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another, would you agree with that?
Now having established that, it does not make any logical sense that just because the woman signed a marriage certificate it makes her more prone to cheat than a woman who isnt, yet both naturally do the exact same thing when looking for a new man to upgrade the old one.

Wtf am I alone on this? I thought all this is common sense.

You have serious growing up to do. I don't know you but you write like a 24 yr old rather than a 34 yr old grown ass man. You are very alone in this. This is not common sense. The worst thing you can do as a man is to have sex with a married woman. Absolutely the worst thing. This is all I will say in this matter. Good Luck.

[Falcon25]

Hallelujah !

I never said if I drop the ball and she finds a shinier alternative she wouldn't (I'd hope she would in all honesty, but thats for another topic)

What I'm saying and this is the part alot of you guys seem to not understand is that it's pretty much common knowledge women dont like to let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another, would you agree with that?
Now having established that, it does not make any logical sense that just because the woman signed a marriage certificate it makes her more prone to cheat than a woman who isnt, yet both naturally do the exact same thing when looking for a new man to upgrade the old one.

Wtf am I alone on this? I thought all this is common sense.

You have serious growing up to do. I don't know you but you write like a 24 yr old rather than a 34 yr old grown ass man. You are very alone in this. This is not common sense. There are various variables that go into sleeping with a married woman. Thousands of things are at play. NONE of which are beneficial to you. Like I said before, if you want to fuvk a married woman, make sure you NEVER see her again or that she is no where near your town, city, work, or whatever. The worst thing you can do as a man is to have sex with a married woman that doesn't belong to you. Absolutely the worst thing. All three monotheistic religions, as well as thousands of cultures and tribes have punished this behavior. There is a reason for that. This is all I will say in this matter. Good Luck.

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All three monotheistic religions, as well as thousands of cultures and tribes have punished this behavior. There is a reason for that.
So beta's can have some stability and a false sense of security?

This is all I will say in this matter. Good Luck.
Apart from saying I'm not grown up, I write like a 24 year old, I have no integrity or character and that it's just "wrong" you havn't really said much. I'll spare you what I think of guys like you, it's a wasted endeavour.

I'm just still wondering if you were serious when you said a wife "cheating" on you is worse than being killed.

[Falcon25]

I'm just still wondering if you were serious when you said a wife "cheating" on you is worse than being killed.

Finding out your wife cheating, the mother of your kids, and maybe ending her life or her lover's out of passion, and going to jail for the rest of your life, leaving your children motherless, is in my opinion worse than getting killed. This happens everyday in this world, in every country. Lot's of murders over infidelity. You are not Beta for having morals or ethics. It's not a false sense of security. Being Alpha doesn't mean you get to fuvk another man's wife. It means you find your own and you keep her your own.

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Being Alpha doesn't mean you get to fuvk another man's wife. It means you find your own and you keep her your own.
Wtf are you talking about? You asked why a married woman straying is frowned upon in different cultures.

Finding out your wife cheating, the mother of your kids, and maybe ending her life or her lover's out of passion, and going to jail for the rest of your life, leaving your children motherless, is in my opinion worse than getting killed. This happens everyday in this world, in every country. Lot's of murders over infidelity. And this makes no sense either, I was referring to this comment..But the road is dirty and it could get you heartbroken, killed, or even worse, your future wife could do the same to you. Your talking about ending lives, motherless children what the hell, now your just jibbering for the sake of an argument , just shutup you peanut.

[mrRuckus]

Finding out your wife cheating, the mother of your kids, and maybe ending her life or her lover's out of passion, and going to jail for the rest of your life, leaving your children motherless, is in my opinion worse than getting killed.

Wow, just tack on about 5 extra things and anything will look worse.


What's worse?

Earthquake or bunnies?


Well, bunnies and possibly breeding them so there's billions and they eat all the vegetation and we starve to death is OBVIOUSLY worse than an earthquake. Especially if we crossbreed them with wolverines so that they're naturally aggressive and have razor teeth.

[Danger]

Hallelujah !

I never said if I drop the ball and she finds a shinier alternative she wouldn't (I'd hope she would in all honesty, but thats for another topic)

What I'm saying and this is the part alot of you guys seem to not understand is that it's pretty much common knowledge women dont like to let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another, would you agree with that?
Now having established that, it does not make any logical sense that just because the woman signed a marriage certificate it makes her more prone to cheat than a woman who isnt, yet both naturally do the exact same thing when looking for a new man to upgrade the old one.

Wtf am I alone on this? I thought all this is common sense.

Ok, that clears it up a lot more. I agree with everything you said.

I believe it is very possible that the woman will not cheat on you...However

I recognize that women vary in many levels, one of those includes "capability of cheating". Some women are just much more capable of cheating, branch-swinging, etc,... than other women are.

It is a sliding scale.

Some women will do it every chance they get,
some once a year,
some once a decade,
some once in a lifetime
and some once in 500 years should they live that long.

My point is, EVERY woman is capable of cheating.....they just all need different prerequisites to do so. The woman that cheats on her husband (or boyfriend), by her actions, immediately puts her in the questionable area of this scale.

Sure she may not cheat on you, but make no mistakes....the likelihood is much higher for her than it is for other women. I'd still chuck her afterwards.