this girl is somewhere between the 8-9 range (lets say 8.1) and she goes to my high school, I never saw her while I was going to high school but I ended up hitting her up on Facebook one day over her status comment but I was wondering what my high school status was when I had absolutely NO friends. Just conversed with the girls I was getting numbers from, no male friends since freshman year (where my LTR started and ruined my social life all the way until senior year where we seperated).


With this girl the conversation started about how she went to my school but I never seen her. I wasn't a part of no social circle but I am known as a "Playa" by some "man *****" by others and I am pretty attractive if I do say so myself. I was always respected and poeple even said to me "Your one of those types of people that just gets instant respect when u meet them".

so in retrospect (obviously doesnt matter now) I think I was doing pretty good on a social status level for someone with no social circle and this isn't anything new I'm discussing on here, I've posted up my social circle situation on here before and people told me I was doing pretty good with girls for a guy with no social circle.

but this girl said "Honestly I never thought you would have talked to me" after a few days of talking to her, so was I basically unapproachable? Girls loved talking to me, there was times when three in-demand girls were all talking to me at once and they all threw there number at me. I really have mastered the art of verbal communication and it feels good everytime I'm talking to a girl because honestly it's the only time where I'm alive,


but nonetheless. discuss. Why would any girl think a guy wouldnt talk to them?

Unfortunately, I had this same thing happen to me. All through high school I was extremely insecure. I didn't get into the PUA stuff until the end of my senior year. By then it was too late. Going back and talking to some of the girls I went to school with I've been hearing the same thing. I guess my quietness made people think I was "stuck up". I guess I was good looking, but I never knew it at the time. A lot of girls seemed to think I was dating a girl from another school, or thought I was gay, trying to rationalize why I was never really that social with girls. All I can say is. It's over now. This girl gave you a compliment. She pretty much told you she thinks you are out of her league. She has a high attraction level for you. Now it's your duty to not fvck it up. Haha.

lol thanks man, I guess there's one of our kind in every school. Luckily I first looked into PUA by my freshman year right before I got my ltr, by the time I got to use my PUA skills they were well seasoned