this girl i known for a couple years online who lived where i use to live until i moved.. well she messaged me out of the blue the other day on msn saying she'll be in blah blah on the blah blah day/date. for a couple days.. sunday and monday and she wants to go for a coffee or something.

"If you're available we should catch up for hot chocolate or something Let me know."

to be exact. anyway i know she had a boyfriend last time we spoke which was last week i think. her facebook says from the other day "no longer listed as single" maybe she has been having problems and is single again.. but now i dont know if i should make moves or not... we'll only be meeting one day. i have to study on monday so ill have to meet her on sunday.. one night isnt enough for much is it.. plus she goes back home to her state on tuesday :/

Approaches you out of nowhere.

Newly single.

Only in town for a day.

Sounds like you've got the perfect ingredients for a ONS my friend. Can't you take the hint?

You should at least meet up and see where it goes. What else are you gonna do anyway? Unless you have a super strong social circle, take all the shots where you can. Being choosy when you have limited options isn't very smart.

what do you mean you gotta study monday? C'mon. Study earlier, meet her on Sunday, and if things are right, meet up with her on Monday as well. Guys always amaze me, they plot & plan & prep to meet women, then when they have to sacrafice a little... they cant do it.

Generally, I don't find woman contacting me out of the blue for no reason. At least for me, this means bootie call

she has a bf. she just told me. still try fuk her? lol.

why not, probably not serious if shes seeking you out

k, just exchanged numbers. she gave it straight away.

1. have coffee
2. get to know each other
3. ask her to take me to her room where she's staying (hotel)
4. get her on the bed.. give her a nice back massage.. get her relaxed and start kissing her neck, etc... (almost always works, ive tried it)
5. fuk her and leave.