“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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would you ask a woman out even if you sense there is low interest?

bookman

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question is in the title

so I am pretty sure this woman is not interested in me, she never initiates contact or asks about me or anything, but currently there are no other options. I don't really care about her much myself, but I am still considerign the option. would i be worth the risk?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Megaman XIV

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Ask her out anyway. You have nothing to lose. She might be waiting for you to make a move, so get like Nike and Just do it! Don't display this is your oneitis.

Done deal. Now come back here with posted results.
 

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Well, it won't kill you I guess.

Have you been trying to build interest with her? Hopefully so.

Good luck.
 

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I had previous threads about her, used to be in my class(fall semester over) nerdy and very beautiful
she kinda scares me because she's the goody 2 shoes type, with very high grades and puts work as a op top priority while I screwed up pharmacy and moving to computer science :p

not to mention being beautiful is scary enough

I talk to her like once a week on the messenger to ask her how se is doign in exams and such, she never ever texts me(I got a merry christmas text on my mobile, oh joy :p ) personnal interactions at the university mainly revolve around schoolwork only, I maintain high level of eye contact and so does she, but I do not see interest
she never tries to contact me...
 

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This is like a ? box from the Japanese version of Super Mario 2. It could be a coin, could be a fire flower, could be an invincible starman, could be a 1-up, could be a poison mushroom.

Just make a move or the potential will just sit there for someone else. You really don't know. And listen to iceberg too!
 

bookman

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there is dignity to consider and about 15 mutual friends in common :p I'm leaning more towards no

edit: she spent it studying, as she spends most of her life, except this break between semesters
another edit: then again who knows :p she could be studying ahead

nerds scare me more than beautiful women, nerdy girls have high standarts
 

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ok... what is she going to do for spring break?

does she want a study partner? **** i dunno she has to like DOING SOMETHING! She actually reminds me of this girl who spends her days on farmville on Facebook.
 

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Ask her in an ambiguous way or like it is possibly a group thing and others will be there (they will of course not be able to make it)
I was once offered tickets for a tennis match ad I told a girl who liked tennis very much that I had the tickets was she interested. she said she didn't think she could make it and I said no worries I will give them to another chap who also liked tennis a lot.
I said I couldn't make it and that was why I looking to give them away which I did
 
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