rise in single women with kids, no formal education

picard · Jan 24, 2010

I have notice a sharp rise in single women having kids. These women aren't divorced moms either nor in lesbian relationship.

They are uneducated and work in menial jobs yet they have 1-4 kids.

how the hell do they get the money to raise 4kids with no education? I assume the women rely on generosity of their boyfriends.

WTF ? have the parents of these women taught them the wrong lesson in life?

MikeBrown30 · Jan 24, 2010

I was having a browse on oasisactive.com, and it surprised me how many 19-23 year old single women there are, with 1 or 2 kids. They make it sound like this is considered a normal thing, or that it brands them as superior to everyone else because of the added responsibility. I can only shake my head when I come across these profiles.

taiyuu_otoko · Jan 24, 2010

Another reason to always carry condoms, and be very careful of who you get emotionally attached to.

Just another screening element.

You: (on a first date): There's this girl I know, she's only 23, but she's not married and has three kids. I have no idea how she supports them.
Her: I think that's great! It think it shows how far women have come.
You: Oh Crap! I just forgot, I have a meeting in, um, New York. Gotta run.

sodbuster · Jan 24, 2010

YOU are paying for them-welfare,Food stamps, etc. Another way of men getting USED to pay for someone elses kids. Need to make the government collect from the fathers,not us.

synergy1 · Jan 24, 2010

sodbuster said:
YOU are paying for them-welfare,Food stamps, etc. Another way of men getting USED to pay for someone elses kids. Need to make the government collect from the fathers,not us.

Don't they already require some form of child support even if they aren't married?

picard · Jan 24, 2010

I am surprised how dumb these young women really are. They actually believe of their superior intelligence to men because they believe men don't know how to raise kids.

I had conversation with a few of them. They have the brain of Sara Palin. no pun intended.

Julius_Seizeher · Jan 25, 2010

sodbuster said:
YOU are paying for them-welfare,Food stamps, etc. Another way of men getting USED to pay for someone elses kids. Need to make the government collect from the fathers,not us.

But the poor baby daddies ain't got no job! So white men, especially ones like sodbuster who own professional practices and report on Schedule C, get to foot the bill!

This is a serious point of contention for me, my definition of Freedom does not include "the obligation to support those who CHOOSE to not be worth a fvck"

bigjohnson · Jan 25, 2010

picard said:
They have the brain of Sara Palin. no pun intended.

At least Sarah Palin can spell Sarah Palin.

sodbuster · Jan 25, 2010

I'm not sure how dumb Sarah is. Bush was derided in the media for being stupid,but had better GRADES than Gore[both in Ivy League schools].Not saying Bush was a great President,just that the media has an agenda. When 90% of mainstream media votes Democratic in every election,the bias is evident.
For enducational purposes, read Glen Beck's book "Arguing with Idiots" He's not a R or a D,he's a true libertarian/conservative thinker. He has some statistics that MAY enlighten you. He didn't think much of Bush either.BUT for different reasons.
IF you are going to unplug from the matrix re: women,maybe you should see what else society is telling you that isn't necessarily so-and unplug from that as well. Learn to look at BOTH sides of an argument and THINK for yourself. You cant read "earth in the balance" and "It takes a villiage" without reading something to balance it with.

NEVER argue politics with a woman-most are liberal. Because the government protects them from all their bad choices,they have no need for personal responsibility. So they can treat us like sh1t instead of the breadwinner/protector of the old days.

taiyuu_otoko · Jan 25, 2010

sodbuster said:
Bush was derided in the media for being stupid

I agree that the media is largely left wing, and has an agenda, but there might be another reason for Bushes supposed "stupidity." In the book "Talking To Win" by Lillian Glass, she quoted an interesting study:

Some researchers did a double blind study, where they had a bunch of different people with different accents read a paragraph written in seventh grade level English.The paragraphs all contained the same level of vocabulary, sentence structure, etc. Basically identical.

Then they had a bunch of different people randomly listen to ONE recording, and judge the person's intelligence based on listening to them read. Different accents, same content.

The most "intelligent" sounding people were British, and the "dumbest" sounding had a Texas accent, just like dubbya. This study was done way before Bush became president.

Not that this has anything to do with dumb girls having babies, but I thought I'd throw it out there.

Luthor Rex · Jan 25, 2010

sodbuster said:
NEVER argue politics with a woman-most are liberal. Because the government protects them from all their bad choices,they have no need for personal responsibility. So they can treat us like sh1t instead of the breadwinner/protector of the old days.

Funny you should mention this, I was reading an article over at this blog that said something similar:

What changed before Roosevelt came to power that explains the growth of government? The answer is women's suffrage.

Without the women's vote, Republicans would have swept every presidential race but one between 1968 and 2004.

The gender gap exists on various issues. The major one is the issue of smaller government and lower taxes, which is a much higher priority for men than for women.

Hence, single women who believe they may marry in the future, as well as married women who most fear divorce, look to the government as a form of protection against this risk from a possible divorce: a more progressive tax system and other government transfers of wealth from rich to poor. The more certain a woman is that she doesn't risk divorce, the more likely she is to oppose government transfers.

Even after accounting for a range of other factors — such as industrialization, urbanization, education and income — the impact of granting of women's suffrage on per capita state government expenditures and revenue was startling.

I won't paste the rest, you can go read it.

amoka · Jan 25, 2010

sodbuster said:
I'm not sure how dumb Sarah is. Bush was derided in the media for being stupid,but had better GRADES than Gore[both in Ivy League schools].Not saying Bush was a great President,just that the media has an agenda. When 90% of mainstream media votes Democratic in every election,the bias is evident.
For enducational purposes, read Glen Beck's book "Arguing with Idiots" He's not a R or a D,he's a true libertarian/conservative thinker. He has some statistics that MAY enlighten you. He didn't think much of Bush either.BUT for different reasons.
IF you are going to unplug from the matrix re: women,maybe you should see what else society is telling you that isn't necessarily so-and unplug from that as well. Learn to look at BOTH sides of an argument and THINK for yourself. You cant read "earth in the balance" and "It takes a villiage" without reading something to balance it with.

NEVER argue politics with a woman-most are liberal. Because the government protects them from all their bad choices,they have no need for personal responsibility. So they can treat us like sh1t instead of the breadwinner/protector of the old days.

Is this a joke? Last time I checked, glenn is a fully grown conservative with some idiot ideas.
And why do most of the popular conservative talk show hosts were either unable to enter and complete college or drop out. You dont believe me?

Here and

here

and the boss of it all is here

glenn could not finish either... he was an AA then he found god.

sodbuster · Jan 25, 2010

Read the book [check it out from the library if you don't want to support him]and judge for yourself. How many industrial giants didn't finish college? Gates and Edison come to mind right off the top of my head. How many "Great liberals" had personal problems-Clinton, all the Kennedys, etc. Typical liberal tactic-to attack the person when you are too weak minded to argue with his ideas. Suppose I'm next.

If liberals were so smart and popular,Air America[you know the LIBERAL counterpart to conservatives] would still be on the air.

speakeasy · Jan 25, 2010

picard said:
They are uneducated and work in menial jobs yet they have 1-4 kids.

how the hell do they get the money to raise 4kids with no education?

Guess you've never heard of the 3rd world. You just described about 75% of the planet.

RMM · Jan 25, 2010

f283000 said:
The bad: Single mothers are a drain on society with their bastard children
The good: From what I hear single mothers will do you by the 2nd date they are starved for sex.

So if single women get by with welfare and draining taxpayers' money...

And if you're single guy who gets to pay taxes out the wazoo...

[Computes]

If you do a single mom, you're paying for sex.

Gee, nothing new under the sun!

Stagger Lee · Jan 26, 2010

sodbuster said:
I'm not sure how dumb Sarah is. Bush was derided in the media for being stupid,but had better GRADES than Gore[both in Ivy League schools].Not saying Bush was a great President,just that the media has an agenda. When 90% of mainstream media votes Democratic in every election,the bias is evident.
For enducational purposes, read Glen Beck's book "Arguing with Idiots" He's not a R or a D,he's a true libertarian/conservative thinker. He has some statistics that MAY enlighten you. He didn't think much of Bush either.BUT for different reasons.
IF you are going to unplug from the matrix re: women,maybe you should see what else society is telling you that isn't necessarily so-and unplug from that as well. Learn to look at BOTH sides of an argument and THINK for yourself. You cant read "earth in the balance" and "It takes a villiage" without reading something to balance it with.

NEVER argue politics with a woman-most are liberal. Because the government protects them from all their bad choices,they have no need for personal responsibility. So they can treat us like sh1t instead of the breadwinner/protector of the old days.

I agree. You know who really is stupid? Anyone who believes the media/political propaganda and believes Sarah Palin or insert X politician is stupid. They just pulled a "Dan Quayle" on Palin. That is, if your political rival is formiable and popular, paint them as stupid. It's kind of like how women paint men as stupid. If you observe the action and behavior of the average woman, could any thing be more stupid?

Stagger Lee · Jan 26, 2010

RMM said:
So if single women get by with welfare and draining taxpayers' money...

And if you're single guy who gets to pay taxes out the wazoo...

[Computes]

If you do a single mom, you're paying for sex.

Gee, nothing new under the sun!

Yeah true, but it's tales you lose heads women win anyway. Even if a woman doesn't get pregnant and receive the generous welfare benefits but instead works, you are still paying for women so they can take jobs away from men through affirmative action. So men have all ready given up almost half of their economic opportunity to women that way. Modern American women are very parasitic/predatory.

Trader · Jan 26, 2010

Again, no one here discusses the root of the problem. Everyone just complains about the effects (men end up footing the bill)

Ask yourselves this question: 'Why is there a rise in single women with kids?'

The simple answer is that men have allowed it.

Even several generations ago, being pregnant before being married was seen as a big disgrace by society (read: men). In fact, if a girl even slept around she would be degraded by others. In short, men kept girls in check, and girls were afraid to lose their value in the sexual marketplace.

But again, the same recurring theme keeps coming up. Guys lead, girls follow. Once guys started to *tolerate* sluts and loose girls just so they could get a piece of the *action*, girls soon realized it was acceptable to slut around. Hence the rise in single women with kids.

Us men created this mess ourselves.

Shut up and own it.

zekko · Jan 26, 2010

But again, the same recurring theme keeps coming up. Guys lead, girls follow. Once guys started to tolerate *tolerate* sluts and loose girls just so they could get a piece of the *action*, girls soon realized it was acceptable to slut around. Hence the rise in single women with kids.

Us men created this mess ourselves.

Shut up and own it.

All true. You reap what you sow.
Truth is, men have to take their part of the responsibility. It takes two to tango. And as you say, men are the leaders.

princelydeeds · Jan 26, 2010

I'm neither Republican nor Democrat, I believe all politics is a sham. IMHO, there is little difference b/n Bush and Obama and I voted for neither of them. With that being said, Sarah Palin is in way over her head. Palin did not know what the job of VP entailed and I don't think she understands who the founding fathers are. She may not be a complete idiot as some would say, but most politicians are exceptionally smart people. I look at Obama/Biden, while I do not agree with much of their politics, they are very bright men of exceptional intelligence. Palin.... not so much, she is of exceptionally average intelligence.

Child support is the new welfare. Men paying child support are subsidizing these children. Taxes and welfare also play there parts in enabling this behavior, but the welfare reform act of 1996 and Bill Bradley's child support reforms ensured that non custodial men would be enslaved to the mothers of their children.

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