“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Holiday season and gifts

Jean Valjean

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I am spinning am still friends with exwife and spinning 2 plates (gf) right now.
One plate I met 5 weeks ago and have slept with twice. We have mainly gone dancing, dinner and alot of making out.

She is a highly educated career woman very sweet and bought me a small gift (hi quality scented candle) wrapped with red ribbon. We did not see each other over Christmas as she had a convention so I thought no gifts.

The question is should I have gotten her a small token gift as well and if so is it too late to get something for her.


The other plate is just new and I got all my gifts for the ex who I spent xmas with.


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Spinning plates is hard to do when they go to the same dance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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squirrels

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If "plates" is all they are, then don't sweat giving gifts. In those kinds of situations, you should give gifts if you WANT to, not because you feel you HAVE to.

At this point, I'd say F it.
 

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She should have thrown the candle and hit you in the head with it.

The scented candle is not for you. It's for you and her. It's like when a husband gifts a wife with a 52" flat screen TV. The candle is not REALLY for you to use alone. It's for you to use when she is there.

The gift is a big hint that she wants to be THERE...with you...and her candle.

As far as giving her a gift in return don't bother unless you are going to give her a Victoria Secret gift card.
 

Jean Valjean

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Thanks Guys

good advise. No need to buy her a gift anyway I always pay when we go out - she occasionallys buys me some treats so fair enough



Going to a ig NYE party with all my plates at the same place. Wish me luck!

Happy New Year brothers!
 
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