alright so I feel like Im lacking in the "opener/breaking the ice" category. If introduced to a girl I do perfectly fine...its just that I can't walk right up to a stranger and start talking...What are some lines/Idea's that you guys found most useful?

Lol honestly I have only approached one girl really and it was at the bookstore. I said, "So you come here often?" Haha...and she ended up asking me for my name, put it in her phone and added me on facebook...then gave me her number without me asking for it. She was hot, too.

It's not what u say but how u say it and you gotta have swagger and confidence as well. But if a girl is looking at u say something like "I see you peaking but you ain't speaking" that'll get her attention. And if she looks at you and smiles or something just keep at her until u get action, say something like "a second look will get you hooked tho" thats ya opener and when she gives you some action just find out her name and say something like you'd like to get to know her better and exchange numbers or somethin, simple as that. You don't wanna give away too much of yaself u just wanna get her number and bounce, only time I believe you should have extended convos and do all this talkin is if you trying to pop off a one nighter or something ya dig.

I like to say hi! with a big smile.

But my friend... he likes to take a lint ball out of his pants pocket and pretend to pull it off of a girls shirt... and be like "eww gross!!!"

This is usually hilarious and its a good neg.

good luck.

I like to ask random proverbial questions

I.E. "Hey, if you could have all the money in the world, or a kiss from George W. Bush which would you choose?"

no matter WHAT their answer is, I always bust on them for it and go from there... hope this helps!

thanks guy! I like the lint ball.