“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alphaace

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I would give you history on this HB7.5 but what I wan't is the first thing that comes to your head after you read these text messages. Just know that I broke up with her around the 17th of October because she completly ignored me once on her birthday and then another time two weeks later. Then also while we were dating she went to two Football games (Florida), one with her roommate and a guy friend, and the second with just the guy friend. She claimed the guy friend was just a friend from church, which is the main reason I dumped her. I do still have feelings for this girl, but she is definitely not GF material, too much disrespect. I know its going to seem long but its just text messages.

Thursday, November 26.
Her: Happy thanksgiving
(20min later)
alphaace: You too
Her: Wow. Awesome reponse.
alphaace: What were you expecting?
Her: Something a little more exciting than that.
alphaace: Really? Be lucky I remembered yout number ended in 1228 otherwise it would have said 'who is this". Get off your high horse and chill out.
Her: WHA. I was just messin around with you. No need to be a complete meanie.
alphaace: How was your turkey day
Her: It was okay. It's still hard being back and not seeing Bryce. How was yours.

~(Info. After we broke up.

Bryce was her best friend in High School, he died in a drunk driving accident that he cause. After she got news that he died in the hospital she called me up crying while I was in the gym. After talking for a few minutes her mom called her, I told her I was busy and she should talk to her mom and I would call her back later when im finished. Later that day I had to go to my moms house and pick some stuff up, I invited her to come with me thinking she would decline but she didn't. When she arrived at my place prior to leaving for my moms she was all dressed up and smellings pretty good, like she was trying to impress me or something. After we left my moms, during the ride home, she said, "Im surprised, you didn't put any moves on me". I just smiled, had a small chuckle, shook my head and acted indifferent. After we arrived back at my place, I gave her a hug and said goodbye as we were standing next to her car, I didn't invite her in. We didn't talk until the later date posted in the upcoming texts)~

alphaace: Pretty awesome, mom made tons of left overs for me, gonna be eating good for a few weeks.
Her: Well that's good. I'm glad it was a good one for you. So is there any reason that you were so rude just a few minutes ago?
alphaace: I don't think I was being mean. You havnt said a word to me in almost two weeks and you expect me to be excited when you randomly text me?
Her: A phone works both ways ya know. You havn't talked to me either. I've been going thru a lot. I havn't talked to anyone.
alphaace: Yeah, a phone does go both ways and I was the last person to say something and you blew me off and never responded.
Her: When?
alphaace: About two weeks ago.
Her: What about. I was going thru a lot. It's not like I was doing it on purpose and you know that. But whatever. I am NOT arguing.

20 Minutes later she sent me the SAME text, guessing she just thought it never went through, but I just didn't respond.

alphaace: I asked what you were up to and you said something like "food shopping then packing to go home", then I said you should come over and watch Flashforward with me and you never replied back.
Her: Oh. I never got that one about coming over. :(

I never responded and we didn't talk again until.........

Tuesday, December 01.
Her: Hey
alphaace: Hey
Her: What up
alphaace: Just messing around with my new computer
Her: You got one :)
alphaace: Yeah, got it yesterday
Her: Niceee, you like it?
alphaace: Yeah, its pretty nice, much better than my laptop, keyboard kinda sucks though.
Her: You'll break it in. :)
alphaace: Idk, I think its too small, kinda cramps my hands.
Her: Ohhh :( That's no fun. So how have you been?
alphaace: Pretty good, eating a lot of turkey day leftovers, how about you?
Her: I'm okay, Really tired. Working on a paper. :(
alphaace: That sucks. For what class.
Her: Bio
alphaace: Mmmm, sounds like tons of fun
Her: Ohhhh yeah.

Then again we don't talk to each other until.....

Tuesday, December 08.
Her: Hey
(45min later)
alphaace: Hey
Her: What's up
alphaace: Just got home from the bank.
Her: Fun. :)
alphaace: Yeah, overdraft fees are awesome.
Her: I know, right. I love them so much.
(5min later)
Her: Well....i tried.
alphaace: You didn't put much effort into it
Her: You didn't either
alphaace: Didn't know I was suppose to
Her: Okay. Whatever. I'm always the one texting you and trying to make conversation. But I guess I should just forget it.
alphaace: Riiight. Weeks between text and you ask one question, seems like you only text when your bored and have nothing else to do. Makes me really interested....
alphaace: What are you expecting from me?

That was December 8, we havn't talked until today when she sent me a picture text today of her in a short black dress saying,

Her: "Going out to salsa. :) Haha.
alphaace: Lol, since when did you start salsa dancing
Her: I learned. :)
alphaace: fun fun, im still driving back from soccer
Her: From where
alphaace: Palatka
Her: Oh. Gross. Dead lord, its freezing.
alphaace: Yeah it was pretty cold during the game, thumbs almost froze off.
Her: I'm in a short dress
alphaace: I was in shorts. I had to WORK OUTSIDE, Im sure you'll be plenty warm while DANCING INSIDE.

(im a soccer referee)

Her: Jerk
Her: You didn't say anything about how I looked
alphaace: Its because your hair is blonde, cmon, you should know this by now.

(We first met in class, she has naturally blonde haid. I never talked to her until she dyed it blonde, we always joked about it while we were dating)

Her: Tell me
alphaace: Is that the only reason you text me? So you could hear me say how good you look?
Her: No way jose
alphaace: Your shirt is kinda dark for salsa dancing isnt it? Thought you usually wear something bright for that? You do look good though.

(I know that was a bad move, trust me, I waited and thought of another way to work that so that I would come off souding mean)

Her: It's a dress.
alphaace: Oh
Her: Haha, but thanks
Her: So what are you doing tonight
alphaace: Unfortunately nothing, I "GET" to wake up early tomorrow and drive all the way to Suwannee for a couple soccer games.
Her: Laaaame
alphaace: Your face is lame.
Her: You love it.
alphaace: Oh, is that so
Her: Most def
alphaace: And how do you know this
Her: I just always know
alphaace: Thats an awesome ability
Her: I agree
alphaace: You should be on Heroes with that.
Her: Yeah. They offered. I turned it down. Not really my thing.
alphaace: Whaaaat!! You should of accepted and got me Hayden Panettiere's number, so selfish HB8, shesh.
Her: Sorry. :(

And thats were we are now. During our relationship she refused to put that we were dating on facebook and never put a picture of us up. Now, that never really bothered me because after thinking about it for a little bit that would only be a problem for me and my relations with other HB's I talk to. After that last conversation I went to check out her facebook and her profile image is of her and some fat dude holding eachother, so im thinking, wtf is she talking to me for and, haha, fat dude.

As I said before, this chick is full of disrespect and NOT GF material, but I do wan't to turn her into a FB. I know she has atleast a medium level of intrest because she always starts the conversations when I pretty much just ignore her. I am pretty sure she is going to text me tomorrow at some point just so she could tell me how much fun she had dancing and to ask how my soccer games went. But in the chance that she doesn't I think im going to text her first (for the first time) and ask her how the dancing was. One of the first things I wan't to say after asking her about the dancing is something a long the lines of "why do you talk to me, you know im not interested in being friends".

I know the message is kinda long, but I think (maybe?) you would need all the info possible to tell me what I should do next to transform her into a FB.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

ENIGMA16

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Wow, you're a **** dude. Why are you causing all this drama?
 

Perry

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she wouldnt have texted you all those times if she was interested. i say, invite her over and try to f*** her. if she isnt down then move on. if shes down then rinse and repeat.

for future reference, you dont need to type all those text messages. just type maybe 2 or 3 conversations between you two and say we had many more conversations like these. it will save you and all of us time
 
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