Ronin
Senior Don Juan
Just a quick story and then somthing I learned from the story:
So I took this girl out last night for the first time. We chilled at my place, had a movie, went on some screy haloween train thing and then went for a walk with a view. At my place she snuggled up to me right away. And while she was sort of laying on me she was rubbing my chest and everything. Automticly I went to kiss her but when i tried to make eye contact she kept looking down. I thought, okay she isn't that interested. So were waiting in line for the train...same deal, she showing major signs of interest but she won't sortof lean in for the kiss. And on the train same deal. I would kind of look into her eyes and start to move in but she would keep her head down. So I thought " F*CK..this girl is giving me all of the buying signs but wont let me kiss her" and I was thinking about givin up on her. So we get off the train go for a walk to a place with a view. Were just chillin there holdin each other and she still has her head kind of down, like she has her chin on my chest or shoulder sort of deal. So I say I'll give it one last try and pulled her chin up with my finger and thumb so that our lips were right there and she harsh started kissing me and things went from there
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Anyways the point is that sometimes girls are shy, or don't know that they are accidentilly shutting you down by not looking like they want to be kissed. If a girl is touching you, holding hands holding you, whatever chances are she wouldn't mind, and probaby wants you to kiss her. So if you ever find yourself in that situation go for it and make it obvious. I think that was my fault: I didn't make it obvious that I wanted to kiss her.
So my tip: If you have the smallest suspicion that she is interested just go for it. I am sort of kicking myself because by the time I actually really went for it and made it obvious, it was really late.
This made me realize that with girls in general just go for it! Go ask her for her #. Whats the harm? If shes showing interest signs go for a kiss and make it obvious your trying to kiss her.
GO FOR IT!!!
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-Ronin-
Never foget your ABCs': Always Be Closing.
So I took this girl out last night for the first time. We chilled at my place, had a movie, went on some screy haloween train thing and then went for a walk with a view. At my place she snuggled up to me right away. And while she was sort of laying on me she was rubbing my chest and everything. Automticly I went to kiss her but when i tried to make eye contact she kept looking down. I thought, okay she isn't that interested. So were waiting in line for the train...same deal, she showing major signs of interest but she won't sortof lean in for the kiss. And on the train same deal. I would kind of look into her eyes and start to move in but she would keep her head down. So I thought " F*CK..this girl is giving me all of the buying signs but wont let me kiss her" and I was thinking about givin up on her. So we get off the train go for a walk to a place with a view. Were just chillin there holdin each other and she still has her head kind of down, like she has her chin on my chest or shoulder sort of deal. So I say I'll give it one last try and pulled her chin up with my finger and thumb so that our lips were right there and she harsh started kissing me and things went from there
Anyways the point is that sometimes girls are shy, or don't know that they are accidentilly shutting you down by not looking like they want to be kissed. If a girl is touching you, holding hands holding you, whatever chances are she wouldn't mind, and probaby wants you to kiss her. So if you ever find yourself in that situation go for it and make it obvious. I think that was my fault: I didn't make it obvious that I wanted to kiss her.
So my tip: If you have the smallest suspicion that she is interested just go for it. I am sort of kicking myself because by the time I actually really went for it and made it obvious, it was really late.
This made me realize that with girls in general just go for it! Go ask her for her #. Whats the harm? If shes showing interest signs go for a kiss and make it obvious your trying to kiss her.
GO FOR IT!!!
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-Ronin-
Never foget your ABCs': Always Be Closing.