MatureDJ
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Evidently that guy had a sex drive like a male Black Widow spider - bodily injury as the reward for sex. :crazy:Proselytiser said:My dad was a cop in England. They got a call every now and again from a woman (a bodybuilder) who said she had been beaten by her boyfriend. It was her that had been beating the boyfriend, but the police could not prove either one. Eventually the woman got a restraining order on her boyfriend, but then every time she got drunk, she called him saying she was sorry and still loved him and to come over, where she'd promptly beat him again, the cops would be called, the guy accused of beating the woman and they would tell the guy 'just don't go there, ever, under any circumstance'.
Nevertheless he wen't back about 20 times to her house and was beaten senseless each and every time