The only exception I have for this rule is if their are potential social consequences at stake. You would like to fvck her, you have attracted her, and you know you can. But she is in some social circle where it would become known quickly that you fvcked her. Some possible situations are the following...

1) She is a regular at a bar/club where you have other potential targets.

Maybe you are new to the scene and have not figured out the pecking order yet. Go ahead and do all the work involved in attracting and seducing her inititially but WHILE you do so, try to figure out what other options are available. If she is one of the most attractive or otherwise admired girls in the pecking order you will want to fvck her ASAP because of the social proof that would come from that. If she has a bad rep or may give you negative social proof, either pass it up or make sure you can cover your tracks appropriately if you do go through with it (and BTW, I have gotten DAMN good at covering my tracks by now, LOL!). This is not to say you should be fvcking a girl you can't admit you fvcked and not saying you should deny it if it ever came to light but don't make it as readily apparent.

If you don't know, try to make some observations as to what the story may be. If you decide social proof in that particular venue is not imporant to you, fvck her ASAP.

2) She is part of a peer group

Same as above applies with the added issue of evaluating how it may affect relationships with mutual friends/coworkers/whatever. If you decide through whatever your criteria is that it is worth it, go for it. If you need more time to evaluate the long term consequences do so in a timely manner and make your decision.

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[This message has been edited by SexPDX (edited 10-23-2002).]

Good advice Nick...

Without painting yourself into a corner, any tips on covering the tracks? I seem to be in a predicament that falls in the #2 category.

Thanks.

Originally posted by CaliMike:

Without painting yourself into a corner, any tips on covering the tracks?

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Mike,

Depending on how confident that you are in your influence over her you may be able to convince her to keep her mouth shut which helps. Can't always rely on that though, particularly if she thinks hooking up with you would give HER more social proof.

Most of my covering my tracks has been done by PUing in venues I was for the most part unknown. I frequently change my hair, beard and clothing

The idea is when I am just in the mood to zero in on the easy lay and push hard for a quick fvck I go to venues I don't often show up in, I am different enough from how I normally look to make identification by the group a little harder and I strike and vanish without leaving a footprint. I also let a considerable amount of time elapse before my next visit to that venue or else my game will get figured out pretty quickly. Once you get pegged by the regular clientelle, staff, etc. as an aggressive fcloser type it gets around and becomes such that hooking up with you would be a social risk for a girl who cares about the other people in the venue. These tatics are aimed at keeping be from being marked.

In venues I like and am more comfortable in I carry myself much differently, use more sophisticated game and try to be noticed more.

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Gotcha... Thanks.. I may give that a try once I polish up some of my other skills.

Originally posted by SexPDX:
2) She is part of a peer group

Same as above applies with the added issue of evaluating how it may affect relationships with mutual friends/coworkers/whatever. If you decide through whatever your criteria is that it is worth it, go for it. If you need more time to evaluate the long term consequences do so in a timely manner and make your decision.

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Yes definitely think before you leap, so to speak. I should know because I have just done this, not once but twice. One I dont have any problems with the consequences (not yet anyways ), but with the other, I wish I had thought with my head rather than my dyck.

As long as I dont sleep with her again - I never made any promises of a relationship or anything like that - I'll probably get away with it but Im expecting some sort of confrontation before it fades into history.

Good advice Nick, athough I doubt that if I had read this a couple of months or two ago I would have done anything different - looks like sometimes you just got to make the mistakes before the words of wisdom sink in.


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