stonehawk
New Member
Hey Guys! I've been giving massages for as long as I've been old enough to grab tit. I've learned alot about women and how they react under a variety of circumstances. Some feedback from women I've made love to: 1)So many guys stop at my ass when their giving a massage--it's like, well, ok...but it ends up the last time for most of them. They feel rushed and somewhat taken for granted--their own pleasure at being given a massage ends up shortchanged for the guys' pleasure at scoring some ass.
2) So many guys think they are good at giving massages, when in reality, they often do not have the sensitivity in their hands (and hearts) to really do a great job of it. Spend some time doing the massage, finish the massage before taking things elsewhere, and realize that her reactions should be your guide to fulfilling the 'promise' of a great massage. How much pressure and what direction to rub in are important--going the wrong way can actually damage the vascular systems in anyones' legs, causing circulation problems that can result in the need for surgery later in life. Another point--hard pressure over thin tissue and bone can be very painful! Be careful how you use your strength. Work with her ractions to your touch, soothing and relaxing her. In the end, she'll be reaching for you, she won't feel pressured or used or cheated of her pleasure, and she'll trust you to take her there again and again.
3) Massage need not be solely for the purpose of 'getting sex'--she will remember how good you made her feel when you touch her in areas that have nothing to with sexual feelings--the ears, eyelids, temples and top of the skull, even the gums! Remember--gently and soothingly, not hard and rushed...
4) Licking and tonguing her while massaging her--this works sonders for her while doing her feet--under the toes, the tips of the toes, her ankles, and if not too ticklish, the soles of her feet. And remember, timing is important too--not too soon, and not as a lst-minute effort, either. Her response is your guide. In the end, she'll be saying "Aye, there's the Rub!"
2) So many guys think they are good at giving massages, when in reality, they often do not have the sensitivity in their hands (and hearts) to really do a great job of it. Spend some time doing the massage, finish the massage before taking things elsewhere, and realize that her reactions should be your guide to fulfilling the 'promise' of a great massage. How much pressure and what direction to rub in are important--going the wrong way can actually damage the vascular systems in anyones' legs, causing circulation problems that can result in the need for surgery later in life. Another point--hard pressure over thin tissue and bone can be very painful! Be careful how you use your strength. Work with her ractions to your touch, soothing and relaxing her. In the end, she'll be reaching for you, she won't feel pressured or used or cheated of her pleasure, and she'll trust you to take her there again and again.
3) Massage need not be solely for the purpose of 'getting sex'--she will remember how good you made her feel when you touch her in areas that have nothing to with sexual feelings--the ears, eyelids, temples and top of the skull, even the gums! Remember--gently and soothingly, not hard and rushed...
4) Licking and tonguing her while massaging her--this works sonders for her while doing her feet--under the toes, the tips of the toes, her ankles, and if not too ticklish, the soles of her feet. And remember, timing is important too--not too soon, and not as a lst-minute effort, either. Her response is your guide. In the end, she'll be saying "Aye, there's the Rub!"