One thing that i have noticed is that ones experiences with women changes drastically depending on the social habits of the people around you. What i am referring to is sluts( i mean this in a non derogatory way). Im not a bottom feeder or a guy that exclusively targets sluts but i have noticed that many crazy nights out on the town or just experiences in general have been in the company of not so "pristine women". Any guy with alot of experience with chicks will tell you that party girls and or sluts many times seem like a whole different species of women. The anti-slut defenses and ***** shields that regular women put up when they are only moderately interested in you seem almost non existent in sluts. I understand that good girls also have many of the same sexual instincts as sluts but for some reason they chose to bestow this on a few highly selected men at a time. Good girls are willing to pick and choose a lot more carefully for the best deal they can get. This leads to the social dynamic (mixed signals, mind games, manipulative behavior) we see playing out in life that brought many of us to this site in the first place. Sluts while still selective, seem to be a lot more forward when they are interested.
What is it about these type of women that makes them bypass social convention and readily give into their sexual instincts. Look at the porn industry. Yeh i know its fake but a normal everyday chick would never actually do sumthing like that on camera in for the public so willingly....why?
What i am trying to say is that alot of guys dont understand that if your main goal is getting laid, the type of girls you hang out with is very important. These guys try everything and get frustrated thinking something is inherently wrong with them. This may be so, but game is alot more effective on a girl who for some reason doesn't look at sex as a big deal than a girl who has sum social investment in keeping a clean image. So called good girls or image conscious girls even if they like you are a heck of alot more frustrating to game then girls who are party type or sluts. Alot of the times its not that bad boys get the chicks, its that they target and hang out with girls who for sum reason or another are easy. These guys don't hang out with "choir girls". Many of the guys i knew that sold drugs did not go to church to try to get chicks. The chicks that they attracted that wanted to score some drugs weren't exactly miss sheltered goody two shoes even though many of them were very attractive.
That being said:
1.)
i do understand that sluts are often somewhat picky also. They are not sluts to absolutely everyone. I also understand that even good girls have their slutty phase esp in college.
2.)The word "slut" and "good girl" are very relative and its difficult to use such absolute terms.
3.) I am aware that messing with sluts comes with its own set of problems.
This being said we all know that sum girls are definitely easier (more fun) to game than others. Lets be honest, sum girls are just more sexually liberal than others. This mentally can often be the difference between a fun experience or not. Often times there are guys who have a radar and exclusively target these types of chicks. In college one of these guys told me "you gotta go after the girls that are fu****g". Though crude, i think there is alot of truth in that statement if u just wanna get laid.
What is it about these type of women that makes them bypass social convention and readily give into their sexual instincts. Look at the porn industry. Yeh i know its fake but a normal everyday chick would never actually do sumthing like that on camera in for the public so willingly....why?
What i am trying to say is that alot of guys dont understand that if your main goal is getting laid, the type of girls you hang out with is very important. These guys try everything and get frustrated thinking something is inherently wrong with them. This may be so, but game is alot more effective on a girl who for some reason doesn't look at sex as a big deal than a girl who has sum social investment in keeping a clean image. So called good girls or image conscious girls even if they like you are a heck of alot more frustrating to game then girls who are party type or sluts. Alot of the times its not that bad boys get the chicks, its that they target and hang out with girls who for sum reason or another are easy. These guys don't hang out with "choir girls". Many of the guys i knew that sold drugs did not go to church to try to get chicks. The chicks that they attracted that wanted to score some drugs weren't exactly miss sheltered goody two shoes even though many of them were very attractive.
That being said:
1.)
i do understand that sluts are often somewhat picky also. They are not sluts to absolutely everyone. I also understand that even good girls have their slutty phase esp in college.
2.)The word "slut" and "good girl" are very relative and its difficult to use such absolute terms.
3.) I am aware that messing with sluts comes with its own set of problems.
This being said we all know that sum girls are definitely easier (more fun) to game than others. Lets be honest, sum girls are just more sexually liberal than others. This mentally can often be the difference between a fun experience or not. Often times there are guys who have a radar and exclusively target these types of chicks. In college one of these guys told me "you gotta go after the girls that are fu****g". Though crude, i think there is alot of truth in that statement if u just wanna get laid.
