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"Sluts" are an interesting kind

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One thing that i have noticed is that ones experiences with women changes drastically depending on the social habits of the people around you. What i am referring to is sluts( i mean this in a non derogatory way). Im not a bottom feeder or a guy that exclusively targets sluts but i have noticed that many crazy nights out on the town or just experiences in general have been in the company of not so "pristine women". Any guy with alot of experience with chicks will tell you that party girls and or sluts many times seem like a whole different species of women. The anti-slut defenses and ***** shields that regular women put up when they are only moderately interested in you seem almost non existent in sluts. I understand that good girls also have many of the same sexual instincts as sluts but for some reason they chose to bestow this on a few highly selected men at a time. Good girls are willing to pick and choose a lot more carefully for the best deal they can get. This leads to the social dynamic (mixed signals, mind games, manipulative behavior) we see playing out in life that brought many of us to this site in the first place. Sluts while still selective, seem to be a lot more forward when they are interested.
What is it about these type of women that makes them bypass social convention and readily give into their sexual instincts. Look at the porn industry. Yeh i know its fake but a normal everyday chick would never actually do sumthing like that on camera in for the public so willingly....why?
What i am trying to say is that alot of guys dont understand that if your main goal is getting laid, the type of girls you hang out with is very important. These guys try everything and get frustrated thinking something is inherently wrong with them. This may be so, but game is alot more effective on a girl who for some reason doesn't look at sex as a big deal than a girl who has sum social investment in keeping a clean image. So called good girls or image conscious girls even if they like you are a heck of alot more frustrating to game then girls who are party type or sluts. Alot of the times its not that bad boys get the chicks, its that they target and hang out with girls who for sum reason or another are easy. These guys don't hang out with "choir girls". Many of the guys i knew that sold drugs did not go to church to try to get chicks. The chicks that they attracted that wanted to score some drugs weren't exactly miss sheltered goody two shoes even though many of them were very attractive.
That being said:
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i do understand that sluts are often somewhat picky also. They are not sluts to absolutely everyone. I also understand that even good girls have their slutty phase esp in college.
2.)The word "slut" and "good girl" are very relative and its difficult to use such absolute terms.
3.) I am aware that messing with sluts comes with its own set of problems.
This being said we all know that sum girls are definitely easier (more fun) to game than others. Lets be honest, sum girls are just more sexually liberal than others. This mentally can often be the difference between a fun experience or not. Often times there are guys who have a radar and exclusively target these types of chicks. In college one of these guys told me "you gotta go after the girls that are fu****g". Though crude, i think there is alot of truth in that statement if u just wanna get laid.
 

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I disagree. All girls are slvts given the right circumstances, and 'good girls' are just the ones that hide it better. I agree with slvts being picky though. Just because they are a hor, doesnt mean they are easy.

It all depends on what type of slvt they are. There are different types of slvts.

1. The low SE slvt: this is the girl who is ugly, or thinks she is, and people dont really like too much, so she sleeps around for validation purposes, which we all know makes her less liked, and not respected at all. I dont bang too many of these girls. They use sex to make up for their flaws, and are good for slumpkillers, or for guys who have bad game.

2. The 'recent breakup' slvt: She just got out of an LTR and is making up for lost time. She is also looking her best. Great for rebounds, but she also does some AW'ing at the same time. Not for inexperienced gamers, as they can get attached to her sometimes, and she will play mind games for validation and revenge on the male gender, often convincing AFC's that she wants more than an ONS, while she is already reaching for another branch. She tends to go after her Ex's friends, causing drama, and fights etc. She is hurt, and manipulates guys to bring up her self image. They can be extremely easy, often making all the moves themselves. Usually end up an a relationship with an AFC within a few months.

3. The young, college, party slvt: They are going through the slvtty 'phase' in their life, with newfound freedom. Also, because all their friends are doing it. I'd say they have the best chance at EVENTUALLY being a normal decent chick someday. Good for all around good times, but leave it as a fling at most, obviously.

4. The emotionally damaged slvt: These are the HPD's, BPD's, rape/molestation victims, abused, abandonment issues, etc. Best to steer clear from, unless you know you have your emotions in check. They cant help it, but these women will drag men down to their personal hell if allowed to. They put on a good girl mask, and while easy, put up fake ASD, and fabricate their lives to convince guys they are 'quality.' They play the victim card as justification for their wrongdoings, and there are plenty of them.
They are the female equivilant of wife-beating, control freaks (who they've usually dated) These girls are the best in bed, and worst for GF's. They sleep around to hide from the pain from their past, and usually prey on AFC's. They cheat in a heartbeat, because the 'sacredness' of sex has been defiled in them at a young age, so sex has no intimacy for them. Its like giving hugs for them, and they see no big deal whatsoever with cheating, or sleeping with guy friends, etc. These girls are very dangerous, and often sex addicts.


5. The 'free-spirited' slvt: While she may be from the above categories, this girl basically just likes commitment free sex. She doesnt feel the need for relationships cuz she knows she can get laid at the drop of a hat. I think these girls just think like men, without realizing that their value drops with age, unlike men. They play the game, and fvck whoever they want, after he passes her tests, that is. They are often feminists, who are just seeking equality. Of course, the man still has to pay for dinner, open doors, buy flowers, deal with her emotional outbursts, refrain from chasing other women, yet hold his tongue while she hits on his best friend, (Im sure I've missed a hundred more examples) etc. She has her cake, and eats it too; that is, until one day she overhears someone call her a cougar under their breath.

6. The Temp slvt: She may or may not be a real slvt, but tonight she is. She's drunk and in the mood for whatever reason. As opposed to the 'party' slvt, this isnt her norm. She might even be suitable for an ltr, if she doesnt party a lot.

Did I miss any?
 

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nice reply, i think you covered them all..very interesting
 

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horaholic said:
I disagree. All girls are slvts given the right circumstances, and 'good girls' are just the ones that hide it better. I agree with slvts being picky though. Just because they are a hor, doesnt mean they are easy.

It all depends on what type of slvt they are. There are different types of slvts.

1. The low SE slvt: this is the girl who is ugly, or thinks she is, and people dont really like too much, so she sleeps around for validation purposes, which we all know makes her less liked, and not respected at all. I dont bang too many of these girls. They use sex to make up for their flaws, and are good for slumpkillers, or for guys who have bad game.

2. The 'recent breakup' slvt: She just got out of an LTR and is making up for lost time. She is also looking her best. Great for rebounds, but she also does some AW'ing at the same time. Not for inexperienced gamers, as they can get attached to her sometimes, and she will play mind games for validation and revenge on the male gender, often convincing AFC's that she wants more than an ONS, while she is already reaching for another branch. She tends to go after her Ex's friends, causing drama, and fights etc. She is hurt, and manipulates guys to bring up her self image. They can be extremely easy, often making all the moves themselves. Usually end up an a relationship with an AFC within a few months.

3. The young, college, party slvt: They are going through the slvtty 'phase' in their life, with newfound freedom. Also, because all their friends are doing it. I'd say they have the best chance at EVENTUALLY being a normal decent chick someday. Good for all around good times, but leave it as a fling at most, obviously.

4. The emotionally damaged slvt: These are the HPD's, BPD's, rape/molestation victims, abused, abandonment issues, etc. Best to steer clear from, unless you know you have your emotions in check. They cant help it, but these women will drag men down to their personal hell if allowed to. They put on a good girl mask, and while easy, put up fake ASD, and fabricate their lives to convince guys they are 'quality.' They play the victim card as justification for their wrongdoings, and there are plenty of them.
They are the female equivilant of wife-beating, control freaks (who they've usually dated) These girls are the best in bed, and worst for GF's. They sleep around to hide from the pain from their past, and usually prey on AFC's. They cheat in a heartbeat, because the 'sacredness' of sex has been defiled in them at a young age, so sex has no intimacy for them. Its like giving hugs for them, and they see no big deal whatsoever with cheating, or sleeping with guy friends, etc. These girls are very dangerous, and often sex addicts.


5. The 'free-spirited' slvt: While she may be from the above categories, this girl basically just likes commitment free sex. She doesnt feel the need for relationships cuz she knows she can get laid at the drop of a hat. I think these girls just think like men, without realizing that their value drops with age, unlike men. They play the game, and fvck whoever they want, after he passes her tests, that is. They are often feminists, who are just seeking equality. Of course, the man still has to pay for dinner, open doors, buy flowers, deal with her emotional outbursts, refrain from chasing other women, yet hold his tongue while she hits on his best friend, (Im sure I've missed a hundred more examples) etc. She has her cake, and eats it too; that is, until one day she overhears someone call her a cougar under their breath.

6. The Temp slvt: She may or may not be a real slvt, but tonight she is. She's drunk and in the mood for whatever reason. As opposed to the 'party' slvt, this isnt her norm. She might even be suitable for an ltr, if she doesnt party a lot.

Did I miss any?
Nice job mocking girls who were sexually abused, you sexist fat OLD pig. 38 year old fat ass male behind the computer? You sure have no value to me ;) I hope you spare us precious resources and end your life to make us women happy and convenienced.
 
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You hit about the entire spectrum. I liked #5 the free spirited one, who does in in the sake of equality. You nailed that post. Slut is simply a word which usually means sexually loose or may sleep with several people in the same week. Men do it too, but it is a behavior and some word must be used to describe it, because there are other behaviors too.
 

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i no longer believe all girls are sluts under the right circumstances. i'll agree most can be lol but not all
 

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I am think man***** used to be in vogue. Although a bit odd as nobody pays guys.

Don June don't think the intention was to mock survivors. Most of us r survivors on this board.
 

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Horaholic nailed it. There aren't too many genuine choir girls out there anymore. My theory is that most women want to be slvts, they just don't want to FEEL like slvts.
Modify your game to this theory and I reckon you'll improve your strike rate.
 

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don june said:
Nice job mocking girls who were sexually abused, you sexist fat OLD pig. 38 year old fat ass male behind the computer? You sure have no value to me ;) I hope you spare us precious resources and end your life to make us women happy and convenienced.
Your personal attacks on other members have no value either, so please cease and desist from doing it again. Thank you.
 

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I think horaholic summed it up nicely. I remember writing this post. I wrote it before i knew what a BPD chick was. I wrote this before i ended up ina relationship with one. I think most of the sluts we will encounter will be of the #4 ( emotionally damaged slut).

These sluts are truly the most promiscuous of the whole bunch. Their sexual appetite is deeply psychological. I believe most girls that are highly promiscuous is because they have deep rooted psychological issues.

The rest of the sluts that horaholic listed are understandable. Number 4 is the scary one. Its the one you see in porns and as sex workers.
 

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I used to advocate hitting on sluts in order to get your sexual needs met. I have since changed my opinion. It is pathetic to rely on sluts for sexual fulfillment. There is no victory in that. We have sex for physical satisfaction and emotional validation. When you bang sluts you are just get the physical. The validation that you are a skilled seducer is absent. Sluts are relatively easy...especially emotionally damaged ones.

I have gotten enough sex that i can pass up easy sex with a slut. It kind of disgusts me because i know the baggage the these girls are carrying.
The problem is that high quality hot chicks are so difficult to get. Sluts seem like the only ones putting out these days lol
 
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