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How to ask this girl to hang out wthout sounding creepy?

Kal0051

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Ok, work with this girl at my extra weekend job. Chatted with girl for a bit over the weekend and found out she's a fairly cool girl. Got her number because she gets a lot of free sports tickets through her day job and I told her to give me a call if she needs someone to go with. Anyway, I would like to hang out with her regardless but I don't know if it'll look weird if I just call her to
hang out (since she barely knows me). I did tell her I'd come say hi to
her at some event she's doing pr at this week (it's near my work). Any suggestions guys? And sorry if I'm asking a stupid question but I've always had rotten luck with women and am beginning to think I'm doing something fundementally wrong.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You're not doing any fundamentally wrong. If she barely knows you she'll automatically have her shield up. In order for her to be more comfortable, invite her to a movie outing with some of your (non-jerk) friends - it'll feel a lot more casual and no pressure. Once you guys get a couple of outings down, it'll be a lot more easier to invite her out alone later on down the road.
 

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Never meant I was doing something fundamentally wrong with her, but in the past I've screwed up with girls (almost every girl) and didn't know what I did wrong. So I'm trying to be careful here.
 

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Whenever you decide to invite her to spend time with you, DO NOT DO IT BY PHONE. Do it IN PERSON, after some small talk and right before ending it on a high note.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Whenever you decide to invite her to spend time with you, DO NOT DO IT BY PHONE. Do it IN PERSON, after some small talk and right before ending it on a high note.
Good advice.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Kal0051

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Gangster Of Love said:
Whenever you decide to invite her to spend time with you, DO NOT DO IT BY PHONE. Do it IN PERSON, after some small talk and right before ending it on a high note.
yep, good advice. Shouldn't be too hard to do seeing as I see a couple times a week. I was thinking of mentioning to her that we should do something when I see her at that event she's doing but maybe that's too soon.
 
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