so i'm not sure whats going here..but I have lost all my motivation to meet women this past week or so..Earlier this summer I was all about it..Would get at the least 2-3 new numbers a week..and meet plenty more on top of that? Now i'm finding I dont want to take any initative..have nothing to say to them and bassically say **** it...not sure if its abad thing but I'm also losing focus with other areas of my life like exercise..any thing you guys can offer in regards to sugestions?

Looks like you may be going through a bit of a down phase in your life. Has anything changed recently, like new diet, new job, something that may be affecting you on a subconscious level? If you can find what triggered it, you can fix it. I went through a similar phase when I left uni, the long working hours and lack of contact with new peole really put a downer on me for bout 6 months. In the end it was a friend that helped me through it by forcing me to go out etc

Cinamon said:

Looks like you may be going through a bit of a down phase in your life. Has anything changed recently, like new diet, new job, something that may be affecting you on a subconscious level? If you can find what triggered it, you can fix it. I went through a similar phase when I left uni, the long working hours and lack of contact with new peole really put a downer on me for bout 6 months. In the end it was a friend that helped me through it by forcing me to go out etc

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Well I have still been getting out and about...and the funny thing is I had major changesin my life in July..moved houses..broke off a 7 year realtionship..I my job transfered back to albuqurque (Iwas working 2 hours away_) and I even started making new friends..Now that im working close to home I have an xtra 6 hours of time weekdays and should have no promblems taking care of little xtras like exercise..I come home and need a nap..I have lost alot of my charisma and dont really care what most people have to say anymore...well i Know of a couple of things that need to be addressed I'm revising my goal list tonite..and will work a couple things out and repost in a week and say how i'm doing...By the way I'm working with these guys from england..smart fellows but wierd...
The other day we're standing next to a vending machine...this lady is struggling to get her item..it falls..she turns and looks at me and one of the guys(from england ) and says she would have been bummed if her chips weould have gotten stuck in the machine...My buddie from england just starred at her in amazment...as she walked away...Aparentley being bummed here in the states means something completley different over there in the UK?

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so i'm not sure whats going here..but I have lost all my motivation to meet women this past week or so..Earlier this summer I was all about it..Would get at the least 2-3 new numbers a week..and meet plenty more on top of that? Now i'm finding I dont want to take any initative..have nothing to say to them and bassically say **** it...not sure if its abad thing but I'm also losing focus with other areas of my life like exercise..any thing you guys can offer in regards to sugestions?

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In regards to women, I know in my case, once i figured out that this wasn't rocket science I kind of lost interest in approaching every hot woman I saw. Kind of like how when you buy a new video game, play it day and night for about a week or two and then its not really too fun anymore.

As far as the working out, really you just have to force your body. Even when your body says no i don't wanna workout do it anyways, force it.

You'll be fine, its temporary trust me.