Hi guys, long time lurker, first time poster-25 year old post grad student. After being burned on several occasion's by women, I decided to search for dating tips and voila I found Neil Strauss and other PUA material (this site included). Being an introvert is hard but staying as one and being spineless is even worse. So I decided to change.


What I do hate is the forum known as the loveshack. It's completely run by women who give dating advice to men, Ive tried using some from there and well it never worked. Reverse actually. I learned that women never want or act what they say. I got banned because I was bordering on insulting when I was stating relevant views.

At present I am seeing 3 different women and while I do like the player aspect of it, I may choose between the 3 eventually.

Glad to be here.

haha loveshack, that forum looks like a pile of crap, and i've been on there about 5 minutes.

read the dj bible bro, did me a world of good...

havent heard of that yet. Is it a book or an ebook?

Welcome home Wanderer!

The "DJ Bible" is the best threads from this site all bundled up in an e-book of sorts. The link is at the bottom left side of the screen.


Curious, what major is your grad work in?

YEA CHICKS ONLY TALK CONCERING THE MOMENT...i learned when a chick says

YOU WILL NEVER SLEEP WITH ME YOUR NOT ATTRACTICTIVE....WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...(RIGHT NOW) I WOULD NEVER SLEEP WITH YOU...AND (RIGHT NOW) YOUR NOT ATTRACTIVE...

YOU could say i've had luck with girls who promised they would never do it with me and did lol hahahha