Hey, so I read alot of advice here and I started 'spinning' girls which is hard starting out but I find it working somewhat. So one of them that I'm interested in invites me to a movie (for the 2nd time) and we watch it together, I do lots of kino and keep her laughing through most of the movie. My gut instinct told me it was all good and when I'm leaving I ask her to a formal that's four days later. I see her hesitate and give me something about her going with her friends,
which I know is her saying no. Then the next day she invites me to lunch and I say I'm busy and then she invites me to another movie later the same day which I say I already saw. I'm not trying to be spiteful here, but she was all good during the movie, then she reverses when I ask her to a dance and then the next day she just feels like hanging out?
I'm wondering does it mean I tried to advance too fast and that she wanted to go slower?
My other plate is this girl I danced with and seduced (OK not sex), but then the following days in class she seems quiet around me, actually saying that she was almost ignoring me would be more accurate. I set up a study date with her tomorrow (which is how I got her the first time), but she still seems reluctant for some reason. I'm not too advanced with dating but is this like a ONS without the actual sex? I'm kinda confused, I'm still acting the same around her, I don't try anymore or any less but I feel she seems to be re-evaluating me for some reason.
Anyone have anything similiar? Any advice/criticism please...
which I know is her saying no. Then the next day she invites me to lunch and I say I'm busy and then she invites me to another movie later the same day which I say I already saw. I'm not trying to be spiteful here, but she was all good during the movie, then she reverses when I ask her to a dance and then the next day she just feels like hanging out?
I'm wondering does it mean I tried to advance too fast and that she wanted to go slower?
My other plate is this girl I danced with and seduced (OK not sex), but then the following days in class she seems quiet around me, actually saying that she was almost ignoring me would be more accurate. I set up a study date with her tomorrow (which is how I got her the first time), but she still seems reluctant for some reason. I'm not too advanced with dating but is this like a ONS without the actual sex? I'm kinda confused, I'm still acting the same around her, I don't try anymore or any less but I feel she seems to be re-evaluating me for some reason.
Anyone have anything similiar? Any advice/criticism please...