Here is something to do for all of you guys that come here and look for advice on how to do better with girls. You probably heard this before but here it goes.

First of all and most important do not worry at all about girls, they are not anything special until they really prove it so. The more beautiful the girl the more you should not care at all, her looks should not impress or intimidate you.

Take care of yourself, make yourself happy in all of the aspects of your life, (this ironically can be accomplished better most of the time when not having a girl by your side}, make yourself feel good, look good and when you truly accomplish this girls will come to you and you will not even realize it.

Now about getting to the girls. Everybody really should know how to approach girls, there is really a million ways to do it and whatever works for one might not work for another. Basically being funny with a good sense of humor, being pleasant with everybody around you; helpful when help needed, polite with everybody, and most important of all not letting anybody walk over you. Stand your ground, let everybody know what you think, dont be afraid to disagree if you got a point to prove, and this is very important especially when dealing with those gorgeus girls that most guys will not anything to displease them and everything to please them and they end up being the biggest woosies. DO NOT DO THIS at all cost!!!!

When trying to approach girls, just do it, you have no reason to be nervous at all just walk up to the girl and introduce yourself.

When in situations like this i found out that it is very useful to pay attention to the little details, something about the surroundings, something about the girl in case, anything that kind of stands out and you can pick it up as a subject of conversation. Then if you strike out a conversation try to turn it around so you can focus the conversation on the girl, try to find out that way what she does, what she likes and dislikes in short make her the focus of the conversation and remember what she says. But never forget while you are doing all this HAVE FUN with it, this is not a chore or a routine, you are having fun so just let it rip, laugh at everything even the girl in question in a light and funny sort of way of course, laugh at yourself, just enjoy the experience.

Now for the not so fun part, the rejection part. This will happen quite often, more often for some than others but the most important thing to know is that you should not care at all that you got rejected even if it was in a very mean and bad way (lol).

There is very many reasons why guys get rejected by girls and are actually the same reasons why when being out there in society just trying to get along and sometimes some people just seem not to like you as soon as they see you. Exactly the same thing with girls except girls have those extra reasons such as they all "really know" what you are after, and looks, every girl having a particular image for the perfect guy (they will always strain away from that image anyway lol).

Anyway, what it all comes down to is just have fun, no worries, its all a numbers game just like you have heard before, you try (make sure that you dont try too hard or you will be destined for failure) and if you are succesful then its great and if you dont move on and just remember HAVE FUN!!! and keep going.