whats up guys....wondering how you guys would approach this situation.
im in a foreign exchange student program until december. one of the girls here is really cute and just so happens to go to the same school i go to. anyway, towards the beginning everyone was trying to mack on her, and were "diminishing" as i like to put it (be a "finisher" not a "diminisher" self-explanatory). eventually most of the guys got subtle hints that she wasnt down .
as for me, im a guy that is constantly upbeat and trying to have fun all the time (and in turn girls want to be with me to have fun too).
my problem is im worried about getting popped in the friendzone. normally, i make it known right off the bat that im interested sexually, making it impossible to go into the friendzone. either im interested and they are too, or our relationship is over. the problem here is since im with her for another 4 months, i dont want to burn the bridge all that quickly because we have planned excursions, see eachother often because of the same program, etc etc. so if i make my move, and shes not down, then its weird for a while.
anyway, what i do though is ill throw my little comments here and there. for example, ill call her:
me: "you ready to go to salsa and tango tonight?" (we dance salsa/tango every wed. thurs.)
her: "yeah i am just give mea few mins"
me: "nice nice......so...uh.....what are you wearin right now?"
her: "haha shut up....im wearing <this> and <this>"
me: "sexy....nice"
her: "haha alright <my name> ill see you soon"
let me make it clear that i do not call her very often or text her very often. im generally busy so i dont really have time to hit her up constantly.
any advice on how i should proceed?
im in a foreign exchange student program until december. one of the girls here is really cute and just so happens to go to the same school i go to. anyway, towards the beginning everyone was trying to mack on her, and were "diminishing" as i like to put it (be a "finisher" not a "diminisher" self-explanatory). eventually most of the guys got subtle hints that she wasnt down .
as for me, im a guy that is constantly upbeat and trying to have fun all the time (and in turn girls want to be with me to have fun too).
my problem is im worried about getting popped in the friendzone. normally, i make it known right off the bat that im interested sexually, making it impossible to go into the friendzone. either im interested and they are too, or our relationship is over. the problem here is since im with her for another 4 months, i dont want to burn the bridge all that quickly because we have planned excursions, see eachother often because of the same program, etc etc. so if i make my move, and shes not down, then its weird for a while.
anyway, what i do though is ill throw my little comments here and there. for example, ill call her:
me: "you ready to go to salsa and tango tonight?" (we dance salsa/tango every wed. thurs.)
her: "yeah i am just give mea few mins"
me: "nice nice......so...uh.....what are you wearin right now?"
her: "haha shut up....im wearing <this> and <this>"
me: "sexy....nice"
her: "haha alright <my name> ill see you soon"
let me make it clear that i do not call her very often or text her very often. im generally busy so i dont really have time to hit her up constantly.
any advice on how i should proceed?