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hi

i just got a little doubt but need more of a come back line,

i asked this girl out, but for some weird reason i had a feeling like she going to say no before i asked but anyway here how the conversation went.

She was laughing her ass off before i said this

Me: you know what i think would a good idea is that we and you go out for sushi tuesday nite"

her : I dont think that would be a good idea

Me: atleast you will be with great company.

Her: maybe we will see.

she changes the subject.


now im not worried if she said yes or no but i was more like kinda caught off guard.

what could i have said to change the conversation around or hit her with a come back line that is C&F when she said "I dont think that would be a good idea"

Thanks guys
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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hmm something like

'oh come on you were clearly dying for me to ask you out'

takes the pressure off you during rejection and is funny.


But to clarify, at this point the correct thing to do is continue gaming and then try again later right?

as in, more conversation and then 'so ok lets go for sushi'.

Change her mood not her mind
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She's just not that into you. Move on. Maybe come back later, but move on for now.

And next time, do it the right way. Tell her what you are doing and tell her she should come along. And you had better like sushi and not be wanting to go there just to make her happy. Do what is fun for you and tell her she should join you.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
She's just not that into you. Move on. Maybe come back later, but move on for now.

And next time, do it the right way. Tell her what you are doing and tell her she should come along. And you had better like sushi and not be wanting to go there just to make her happy. Do what is fun for you and tell her she should join you.
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Well it would be stupid to take her to a place where i wouldnt go myself, that would just wouldnt be right now would it, anyway, im not giving this girl much thort but i was thinking maybe next time if i were in a situation like this then how would il approach it or give a good answer
 
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Ease i understand what you saying and i like your quote, Change her mood not her mind
 
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