YEA *****ES!!!!!!!!

I sent her a message yesterday afternoon, after getting my ass handed to me from all these posters saying I messed up by not bringin her home, blah blah, and that she is going to flake. I sent her a message yesterday afternoon detailing plans of our night out, saying that we are going out friday night, that I have reservations set for this rooftop club and a different lounge, and that if she cant make it to let me know. She responded this morning:


"nice! lol. i most probably can. hmm either one is fine, although the rooftop sounds more fun, but i guess depending on the weather. doesn't matter anyway , i'm with you so im sure i'm gonna have a balst

TTFN"


PS she also went on a first date yesterday (I asked her if she was dating anyone and she said yeah, she had one coming on tuesday night). It probably went badly, coz she messaged me first thing in the morning today (wed).

Close this weekend, give her what she wants
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seth03 said:

i most probably can

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Only "most probably"?? Hmm...

seth03 said:

she also went on a first date yesterday

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I wonder if he fvcked her on the first date.

Luthor Rex said:

I wonder if he fvcked her on the first date.

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I doubt it, or else she woudlnt have responded. But even if he did....I couldn't care less. It's not like this is my girlfriend or wife im tryin to get back. Just some hottie im tryin to hit it with and see where it goes and what happens.

How many drinks do you guys think we should have before I say we should go back to my place? Just like 3 or 4, and be like....you want to have a drink at my place?

I just want to make sure I don't **** this up.

Why are you trying to wine and dine her? you realize it'll be harder to make her put out right?

dont put a time constraint on it or amount of drinks or whatever.

enjoy the interaction and alow it to escalate to the point where you get enough IOI's and physical connection, then suggest moving somwhere else.

leavethe question open ended...

she will probabley say 1 of 2 things

a. "yea, i want to go to....."

if this is the case then shes not gona want to come back yet so just keep going.

b. "yea, where do you want to go?...." or "yea, you got any ideas?..."

then you can throw in the sugestion of your place.

try and make it somwhere she wants to go back to. i.e. if you know somthing she likes or you both like say "ive got this ....... i realy want to show you"

or

"youve realy got to see this ....... its realy cool/sweet/awsome"

good luck bud.

So what's going to happen? You'll either get yourself mired in the friendzone or just as bad the relationship guy zone, or you'll fvck her and that will be the end of it. You could've fvcked her that first night, so why make it harder?

nightcrawler said:

Why are you trying to wine and dine her? you realize it'll be harder to make her put out right?

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going out to the bars for a fun saturday night is not wining and dining. ive done this a billion times...no it will not make it harder for her to put out...it will make the exact opposite happen. are you crazy?

ketostix said:

So what's going to happen? You'll either get yourself mired in the friendzone or just as bad the relationship guy zone, or you'll fvck her and that will be the end of it. You could've fvcked her that first night, so why make it harder?

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make it harder? what do you mean? just confused by your question thats all

i think the reservations part made some people confused. there is a reservation only rooftop bar/lounge in my city. not food/dinner reservations.

seth03 said:

make it harder? what do you mean? just confused by your question thats all

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what's there to be confused about? You could've fvcked her on day one, but instead you are taking the hard route by asking her out again and trying to get her to want to hook up again. That's fine if you are trying to start a LTR with her I guess.

You know what you have to do this time out, don't you soldier? "The code" requires you to hit it with gusto .

I want a FR on my desk by 8am too.

I have a feeling she is gonna flake on you.

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what's there to be confused about? You could've fvcked her on day one, but instead you are taking the hard route by asking her out again and trying to get her to want to hook up again. That's fine if you are trying to start a LTR with her I guess.

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Right, but what other route is there to take, now that the first date is done? There is no easy route to this...just one route, and thats taking her out. The other route is to not do anything and forget about it...which I am not willing to do...since I start school on monday and will not have much time at all to find new women. What you are saying would make sense if I did not go out with her yet, and for some reason knew she was down for banging after 1 date, but I would still plan on banging her after 2 dates instead of one. THEN, that would be considered the hard route. But I messed up, and I have been given a second chance, so I am going to take it and see what I can do. I cant go back in time to the first date and re-do everything.

The cost I have to pay for messing up the first date, is having to take her out on this 2nd date. Having to do this is way better than not getting a chance at all. Whether something comes out of it depends on (1) my luck, and most importantly, (2) how tight my game is.

jophil28 said:

You know what you have to do this time out, don't you soldier? "The code" requires you to hit it with gusto .

I want a FR on my desk by 8am too.

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haha, best response ever. Thanks. Will do.

jophil28 said:

You know what you have to do this time out, don't you soldier? "The code" requires you to hit it with gusto .

I want a FR on my desk by 8am too.

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We rescheduled for saturday night instead of friday night. That was last night. She is in my shower right now, had to come and update. I just banged the **** out of her all night and for a bit this morning. Success has been realized.

Good stuff man!

seth03 said:

We rescheduled for saturday night instead of friday night. That was last night. She is in my shower right now, had to come and update. I just banged the **** out of her all night and for a bit this morning. Success has been realized.

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Good job soldier. Mission accomplished !

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Good job soldier. Mission accomplished !

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Ok...so I just posted that update this morning when she was in the shower. Now that she's gone, lemme give the breakdown of what happened. Basically, picked her up at 11pm. Drove to a super fancy lounge in the city. Had 4 drinks each. When I was buying the 4th drink for us, I just told her, "we're going back to my place after this drink"...and said it in a straightforward, confident manner. She didnt give a yes or no...it was just pretty much understood that that was going to happen. We finished the 4th drink, and left for my place. I banged the **** out of her for 3+ hours, music blasting on my soundsystem in my high rise, 30th floor overlooking Chicago, both trashed and loving it. It was insanely awesome. Every sexual position (well the basic 4 or 5) was covered.

Next morning, I tell her we're going out for food. Its around 9:50am when we leave, and every good place is closed (most of them opened at 11am). I decided to try and check out the John Hancock signature room (high class restaurant on the 95th floor of the john hancock skyscraper in chicago....just the most amazing views and amazing food. We go there...they end up having this sunday brunch deal for 52 bucks each. I was like ****...i aint doin that. She tells me she will cover it. That changed my mind quickly. Here comes the best part: We go to sit down, and we have a table on the edge of the north facing windows. And what do ya know.........the CHICAGO AIR AND WATER SHOW is going on right before our eyes. I knew it was going on this weekend but completely forgot about the fact that we'd be able to watch it with the best views in the city by going up here. COULD NOT HAVE BEEN A SMOOTHER CHOICE NIGHT/DAY WHATSOEVER! It happpend to start 5 minutes before we came....so we had the perfect view of these crazy fighter jets, helicopters, bigass bombers, parachutists, stunt planes, etc right in front of us. Fighter jets flying past our window every 5 min, since we were up so high. We eat caviar, tons of crazy salmon and meats,, just the tastiest and best brunch foods ever (well for 52 bones what do you expect). We had 2 10 dollar drinks each, so that bumped the total to 140 bucks, then plus tip and tax it went up to 180+ dollars for that. She paid for it all...and wouldnt accept any cash from me.

Awesome.