Haven't dated in about two years. I have had and met women since than but it has been drinks or clubs and etc and mostly sex. No dinners, or dates or anything like that. I am concerned because I don't even know how anymore. It's been so long. I've been concerned with my career, finances, and trying to move to another city. Because I don't think I will live in this city for much longer, it has hindered me in dating. I keep feeling like there is no point since I will move anyway. Have you guys been out of the dating scene for long periods? Does it just come back naturally? I don't know, I just don't have much to talk about anymore. Since my career and finances are not straightened out, what could I offer her? Should I just wait till I get my life in order?
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Haven't been in the dating scene for a while, should I be concerned?
- Thread starter trent81
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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When would that be? This year, next perhaps?trent81 said:
You don't have to have everything just hunky dory to go on a date with that cutie in Marketing. Girls really do just want to have fun..it is all about how you make them feel.
Get back on the horse before you forget which end bytes and which end shytes.
Two things:
- If you're hanging out with women and getting sex, what do you need to "date" them for? Just so that you can tell people you're officially "dating" someone?
- There are plenty of guys who are nowhere near getting their sh!t together and have nothing seemingly substantial to offer anyone yet they're still dating and have no problem with it. Women aren't perfect (huge understatement
) so you don't need to be perfect to date them.
- If you're hanging out with women and getting sex, what do you need to "date" them for? Just so that you can tell people you're officially "dating" someone?
- There are plenty of guys who are nowhere near getting their sh!t together and have nothing seemingly substantial to offer anyone yet they're still dating and have no problem with it. Women aren't perfect (huge understatement
) so you don't need to be perfect to date them.
what this guy said. If ur gettin azz then whats the problem? why put labels on sh!t? Ur gettin the milk without buying (or marrying lol) the cow.Jitterbug said:Two things:
- If you're hanging out with women and getting sex, what do you need to "date" them for? Just so that you can tell people you're officially "dating" someone?
- There are plenty of guys who are nowhere near getting their sh!t together and have nothing seemingly substantial to offer anyone yet they're still dating and have no problem with it. Women aren't perfect (huge understatement
Go out and meet some ladies for fun, sex and good times. You do not have to be looking for the one because odds are she does not exsist. Do not take girls out to eat as it waste your money and time. Drinks, dancing or things you enjoy that will cost as little as possiable and increase the possability of a sexual encounter. 3-4 ****tails and a bit of grinding will only help you get laid. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and making excuses get out there and met some girls..
