I'm a tall good looking guy who meets tons of women online, but I'm having an issue closing the deal. Pretty much all of the girls I've met and hung out with have been from online . I'm shy and quiet in real life, so I meet these women and basically try to be funny and make them laugh but deep down I kind of feel skinny and weak and unsexual, so it feels kind of like a glass wall. Recently, I've been in a funk with women that I'm trying to get out of. Basically I've fell in love with online poker and thats been my life for the past year or so. With some women that I feel "better than" I'm able to get sexual with pretty fast, but it seems like I'm missing something with most women. Right now I have one girl whose a bit weird who comes over once a week and we have some good sex, but with a lot of other girls I get them to come over in my bed, but I just joke around watch movies and dont do nething. Last night the first girl i ever met online 5 years ago saw me for the first time in years. She was kind of big now (has a kid) but I wanted to **** her but just couldnt. I was busting on her feeln her a little bit even got drunk but she went outside around 3 am to talk on the phone and I fall asleep and when I wake up at like 4:30 she comes back kisses me and leaves. That really fueled me to stop being a ***** and start ****ing these girls. I really think my skinnyness is holding me back here. Can anybody relate to this, and what should I do?
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- Thread starter Dman101
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If you feel skinny and weak deep down, then that's going to be a problem! it's going to show up in your actions and in your stance and in your mood! and why do you fall asleep with her there? If nothing happens by 3am, she's going to know that nothing will happen and so she will leave. Do something you like, that makes you feel cool, like salsa dancing or martial arts, and start working on your inner game!
So your problem is the weight you're working with?
Then step your weight up. Hit the gym. That should boost your inner confidence further and eliminate any thoughts of 'skinniness'.
It's all about the motion when you're bedding women, and hitting them in the right spots.
Next time a woman is at your place, it's already a sign that she's comfortable around you. She's now in YOUR territory. She wants sex. Simple.
Then step your weight up. Hit the gym. That should boost your inner confidence further and eliminate any thoughts of 'skinniness'.
It's all about the motion when you're bedding women, and hitting them in the right spots.
Next time a woman is at your place, it's already a sign that she's comfortable around you. She's now in YOUR territory. She wants sex. Simple.